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Re: Question about miscarriages
From: Claudia Twisdale RN (anonymous@obgyn.net)
Thu, 8 Jun 2000 13:11:37 -0500 (CDT)
YES your friend needs a new OB! This provider is not giving her the care
or compassion she needs. There are afew tests that can be done for her,
and should be done. Furthermore, nothing is more painful and
devastating than losing a preganncy, be it at 4 weeks or 40 weeks. I am
sorry for your friends losses as I have been there too. Give her a big
hug, a shoulder to cry on, and help her find a good OB.
At Thu, 8 Jun 2000, Lori wrote:
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>Hi everybody...
>Before I get to the question, just wanted to let you know that my abcess
>is drained, I'm pain free and feel like a new woman =0)
>
>I just came back from visiting a friend, who called me in tears. She
>has had yet another miscarriage. She has been trying for several years
>to get pregnant, and has a hard time concieving. She only has one
>tube/ovary because of a tubal pregnancy a few years back. She is also
>rh negative. Whenever she does conceive, she always miscarries between
>4-6 weeks. She is young, in her early 20's. Her doctor is not at all
>compassionate, and in fact is quite rude to her. She wants to have some
>kind of testing to find out why this is happening, but he says there is
>nothing he can do, and it's just "not in the cards" for her to be
>pregnant! I told her she needs to find a new doctor, but what she wants
>to know is if what he is telling her is true. Are there any tests that
>can be done to find out what the problem is, and possibly correct it?
>And if so, what kind of tests are possible? She wants to go to a new
>doctor educated and aware, and know what to ask him or her about.It
>seems to me in an age where we can clone sheep, we should be able to
>have some kind of testing done to find out why a human is having trouble
>carrying pregnancies!
>
>Thanks for your help,
>Lori
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