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Re: post pardum/ wrong sex babyFrom: Connie (anonymous@obgyn.net)Tue, 30 May 2000 19:50:28 -0500 (CDT)
At Tue, 30 May 2000, wanda wrote: >Hi! I am sorry that you feel this way, it may be a touch of post partum depression, so that it doesn't go any further, you may want to talk with a professional about your feelings. I also was convinced I was going to have a girl, but when my son came along, I was thrilled! I had tried for 8 years to have a baby and he truly is a miracle to both my husband and I. He has given us 8 years of pleasure and joy. I have learned to do "boy" things and have gotten involved with things he loves! I even took kickboxing to fully understand his love of TaeKwonDo! I was not fortunate enough to have the opportunity to have another child as I had numerous "female" problems and had to ultimately have a hysterectomy after my son was born. My sister has a boy and a girl, you might say she has the best of both worlds! But, I just thank God every day for the true gift of a loving, healthy little boy...girl or boy...motherhood is grand! Just remember, he is a true miracle that has been brought to your life...feel the joy! >I just had a baby two and a half weeks ago. I love my son but he was >supposed to be a girl. I feel like I have lost a child. I feel sad, >sometimes I find myself tryying to convince myself that it is ok that he >is a boy. Then I feel guilty becuase I should just be happy he is >helthy. But I miss my little girl. My sister in-law called and toled >us she was pregnant and I have become even more depressed, because I >just know she is going to get my little girl. It makes me want to get >pregnant again. Are these feelings normal and will they pass? Four >ultrasounds said it was a girl, and he was a well endowed six pound boy
-- Connie
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