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Re: no sex drive or orgasms
From: anonymous@obgyn.net
Wed, 26 Jan 2000 18:45:19 -0600 (CST)
There is a difference between sex and making love, animals have sex
because they do not, as humans do, have the ability for feelings of
love. The problem with society today is that people think sex is an
easy commodotity. It is not. Also, I must rgue the point about sex and
hysterectomy. I am 9 weeks post op from a TAH and bladder repair at age
32, and sex has never been better!
At Wed, 26 Jan 2000, anonymous@obgyn.net wrote:
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>At Wed, 26 Jan 2000, barbara wrote:
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>>Here's where the 90% comes in.............IF we women are not made to
>>feel loving-wonderful-sexy- and most important of all "we are not
>>Pooped" Prior to having sexual intercourse none of this blood flow will
>>even Begin to happen! Hence the reason for the 90% failure rate for
>>women. The physiological Needs Brain to send those messages to the
>>lower body parts.
>>
>>Men are different but not all that different. If they are pooped they
>>have a difficult time performing. They can be arroused a lot easier but
>>men don't usually act on all arrousals. It's in their mind.
>>
>>Now we women are like all members of the animal kingdom; we Need to have
>>the courting period and it can be an all day thing. This is a known
>>fact and research proves it to be true. Hence the 90% again. We need
>>to be made love to prior to the act of intercource.
>>
>Oh brother. I'm clearly from a different era than you Barbara. Also,
>as a woman in the same animal kingdom that you're in, I'd like to reply
>that I don't need to feel loving, wonderful, or sexy to have an orgasm.
>Orgasm is not dependent upon a "courting period" with the male species
>nor is it dependent upon being "made love to" -- criminy, ask any man
>who's ever had sex if he had to "make love" in order to reach an orgasm
>during intercourse and he'll laugh at you. The same can be said of
>many, many women. Self stimulation without a man's participation and
>culminating in an orgasm is quite possible. Sometimes quicker, less
>messy, and preferable. What a bunch of psychobabble you've shared. Let
>me guess, you also believe that a hysterectomy has no impact on a
>woman's sexual response? That all women share the same terrific outcome
>and if they don't, well, it must be "all in their heads."
>
>Geez. How about participating in some CMEs on sexual dysfunction?
>They're available on Medscape and might surprise and enlighten you.
>
>sweetpea@loveable.com
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