Re: Gender Determination

From: Lynda (thesacketts@ukgateway.net)
Thu Sep 23 12:53:45 1999


At Fri, 12 Jun 1998, DRoss38040@aol.com wrote: >
>In a message dated 6/9/98 7:22:11 PM Eastern Daylight Time, alderman@flash.net
>writes:
>
><< Who among us hasn't felt dreadfully uncomfortable when informing parents of
>thier baby's
> gender...only to have them express indignation, tears of disappointment, or
>even anger. >>
>
>We always have to be careful what we say to the patient anyway. They are
>often staring at my face, trying to figure out if everything is OK.
>
>I've had tremendously strong reactions when I've told people they were having
>twins! Some laugh, some scream, some do both, and one cried through the
>whole exam and told me she had no family in this country and her husband had
>just left her! One thing about ultrasound that I really like, actually, is
>that we are in kind of intimate contact with our patients and sometimes have
>some great interactions with them. It's so much better than just stuffing
>them into machines or squashing them under machines (like I used to do in Nuc.
>Med.), and telling them to hold still for eternal lengths of time.
>
>Choosing ultrasound for a career was one of the smart things I've done in my
>life.

Hi,

I am 12wks pregnant with a very much longed for ivf baby. We had our nuchal translucency scan at 12wks and 1day and I asked the sonographer if there were any way that he could tell the gender at this early stage. We lost our baby boy in a car accident 2 years ago. I had totally convinced myself that we were having a girl. Anyway, the sonographer categorically said we were having a little fella. He even gave us a photo of his "manhood". Both myself and my husband were over the moon, as we had never even dared to hope that we would be having another little boy. The thing is, other people that I have told have said that he must be wrong as it is impossible to see the gender at this early stage and even if he did, it still could be a girl. I don't know whether to be excited at having a boy or just to calm down and wait till the 20weeks scan. Could you tell me if you or anyone else has been able to tell the gender this soon, doing a nuchal scan and if they have been correct. Don't get me wrong, we will adore any child we are given, but if I were totally honest, I would adore to have another son, followed by lots of babies of any gender at all! I look forward to hearing from you.

Thanks a million

--
Lynda Sackett

--
Yours truly

Lynda




recommended search...
Google
OBGYN.net forums endometriosis zone Web

use when must restrict search to only the ultrasound forum...
Enter search keywords:
Returns per screen: Require all keywords:

Return to  Ultrasound Forum Mail a New Message to the Forum: ultrasound@obgyn.net
Forum Administrator: terry.dubose@obgyn.net
Report Technical Problems: webmaster@obgyn.net
Last Updated: Mon Nov 2 05:40:18 2009

The American Medical Association is no longer designating CME hours for AMA Category II CME credit. However, physicians themselves may self designate learning activities as Category II CME credit hours if they feel it is of sufficient educational merit and meets the formal definitions of continuing medical education. OBGYN.net believes these interaction in this forum meets these criteria. For further information see the AMA web site.