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Re: conception average
From: Valerie (anonymous@obgyn.net)
Thu, 11 Nov 1999 13:11:07 -0500
Hi again Michele,
I have gotten to the point where I put my emotions on hold. The
second one was the worse, because I knew that I should carry to term if
I followed normal statistics. Even after my third my OB said I was just
'unlucky' and refused to do any testing -- needless to say I changed
Doctors. I'm pushing 40, too, but look incredibly young -- most people
think I'm about 25 (even my new Doctor thought I was joking when I told
him how old I am -- he checked my records right then to make sure I
wasn't making it up!). I think since Doctors look at me and think '20s'
they are in no hurry to check things.
Good luck to you, but remember most everything is simply out of your
hands. If you miscarry it isn't YOUR fault, it's just nature.
VA
Michele wrote:
>
> Thanks Valerie,
> >I usually know when I ovulate too, but this month I wasn't too sure. I'm so sorry about your three miscarriages. I had one and I can only imagine how painful it must have been to have three. I have to admit...I'm really terrified that I'll have a second miscarriage if I am, in fact, pregnant.
>
> >Hi Michele,
> > I got pregnant the first try all three times (but miscarried all
> >three). I always know when I ovulate, and I think that helps a lot.
> >VA
> >
> >Michele wrote:
> >>
> >> My husband and I conceived our first child on our first try (Aug. 14).
> >> Unfortunately I had a miscarriage on September 17. I was just wondering
> >> if conceiving on your first try is common and if it has happened to alot
> >> of women. We've decided to try again and I should have ovulated on
> >> November 6th. What are the odds I could be pregnant again on the first
> >> try? I don't want to get my hopes up, but my lower back feels sore and I
> >> have a headache (which were early symptoms of my previous pregnancy...)
> >> Is it just wishful thinking? I know I should wait until my period is due
> >> to do a hpt.
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