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Re: Vanishing Twin ? To Ann

From: Tracy (anonymous@obgyn.net)
Fri, 29 Jan 1999 13:51:36 -0600 (CST)

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>One question though ..... at what stage do you stop grieving for the
>lost twin .... really what I need to know is ... when do you stop
>crying ? I went asleep last night crying And woke up this morning in
>tears again. I am crying as I type this .... when will that awful
>howling sense of loss leave me ?
>

Truthfully? I dont think I ever did. I do often wonder what it would be like to have the other here with us, but with the circumstances I just really dont think it hit me that hard.

You see I had miscarried a single pregnancy just 2 months prior to losing the twin. With the bleeding with the second pregnancy as well, I thought for sure I was losing another. After I saw that one tiny hearbeat I was just so happy that I really couldnt think of anything else. I guess it would have been worse If I had known before this point that I was expecting twins. Since I didnt I suppose it wasnt as much of a shock??

Maybe some just take it harder, I dont know. Good luck.

Tracy

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