Re: Vanishing Twin ?

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Thanks *so much* for your reply. Everything you said makes so much sense.... it is *so* true that we minimise the grief of miscarriage etc.

I am *so* sorry about your little boy Ethan.

I have to say that up until now, I thought I could empathise with people who had lost babies ... because I am a mother I thought that I could imagine the awful sense of loss that comes with the loss of a child .... I now realise that I didn't even scratch the surface of that grief.

I also thought/believed that my husband was not affected so much by this as me. *WRONG* Yesterday he just about held it together for *MY* sake. Today he's crying his eyes out & feeling just te way I am. So much for my notion that Daddies bonded *after* the baby was born.

Anyway .... thanks for your thoughts ... keep an eye out for my post on Feb. 19th.

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Ann Stapleton,
Dublin,
Ireland.
Mom to Benjamin born July 20th 1992
       Sarah born August 10th 1994
       Emma born July 6th 1995
       Alexander born December 30th 1996
       Suzanne born Mrch 2nd 1998
and    'The beanie twins' due September 9th 1999 (9.9.99) !!

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