PREGNANCY-BIRTH Messages for September, 1998: Re: help me get pregant

Re: help me get pregant

From: Stacey (anonymous@obgyn.net)
Mon, 28 Sep 1998 13:56:59 -0500 (CDT)

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At Fri, 25 Sep 1998, steph wrote: >
>Brenda,
>
>I am so sorry that you are going through such a rough time trying to
>have a baby. I am not a doctor, but a few thoughts did come to mind as
>I was reading your post. First, it sounds like you have had a lot of
>testing done. Has your husband had a sperm count done? If he is even a
>little low I've read that having sex every other day may actually be
>better than every day so he has more time to build up the sperm after
>each "occasion". Another suggestion I have is to read Toni Weschler's
>book, "Taking Charge of Your Fertility". She explains very clearly how
>to assess 3 signs of fertility and how to use them to get pregnant (or
>not get pregnant). I had had a miscarriage and was having a hard time
>getting pregnant afterwards. I read her book and started doing BBTs and
>CF observations and got pregnant that first month after reading the
>book. I've read stories on the inyternet about the same thing happening
>to many other women. It may be worth a try. Brenda, I really do hope
>that you get pregnant and have the baby you want so bad. I'll be
>thinking of you.
>
>At Thu, 24 Sep 1998, brenda wrote:
>>
>>I'm 36 years old. My husband and I have been trying for two years and 2
>>months to have a baby. My husband is 42 years old. I have been threw
>>surgery to determine if their was blockage (nothing),and test after
>>test. In January of 1998 I was pregant for about 4 weeks. I found out
>>on Monday I was pregant by Friday I lossed the baby. The doctor tells
>>me that I'm trying to hard. I have no idea what that means. My husband
>>and I have made a decission, that if I'm not pregant by December that we
>>stop. It's not what i want to do it's what i have to do. Every cycle I
>>wait for the 10 day to do the ovulation kit, that day comes I test no
>>matter what. By the 14th day I have ovulated sometime during that 5
>>days. I make my husband have sex with me everyday, even when he is
>>tired. I check by breast about 100 times a day. I pray (PLEASE, THIS
>>TIME) by the 28th or 31st day of my cycle, I have bleeding. I cry and
>>i'm angry and i hate everyone who says YOUR TRYING TO HARD!!!! until the
>>10th day when I test and the process goes on and on for 2 years. I need
>>help. Please let me know where I can get help to have a baby. I've got
>>to give up someday and just adopt, but it's hard because i have never
>>given up on anything in my life. But how long can i play with my and my
>>husband emotions. Everyone keeps asking me are you pregant? or Is their
>>any news you want to tell us? and so on and so on.... I HATE IT!!!!!

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hello my names is Stacey and I have a problem my husband is doing time in prison and has been in there for 4 years now, we are in need of having a baby but can't. I was wondering how long does sperm last outside the body after ejaculation? If it lasts will it be ok until I can collect a sample and bring it into the doctors laboratory? and does a use of a turkey baster work? I need some help he is in prison and I am out here helpless and need to find a solution that will give us a baby......thanx for listening and hope you have some answers for me

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