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I am so sorry that you are going through such a rough time trying to have a baby. I am not a doctor, but a few thoughts did come to mind as I was reading your post. First, it sounds like you have had a lot of testing done. Has your husband had a sperm count done? If he is even a little low I've read that having sex every other day may actually be better than every day so he has more time to build up the sperm after each "occasion". Another suggestion I have is to read Toni Weschler's book, "Taking Charge of Your Fertility". She explains very clearly how to assess 3 signs of fertility and how to use them to get pregnant (or not get pregnant). I had had a miscarriage and was having a hard time getting pregnant afterwards. I read her book and started doing BBTs and CF observations and got pregnant that first month after reading the book. I've read stories on the inyternet about the same thing happening to many other women. It may be worth a try. Brenda, I really do hope that you get pregnant and have the baby you want so bad. I'll be thinking of you.

At Thu, 24 Sep 1998, brenda wrote: >
>I'm 36 years old. My husband and I have been trying for two years and 2
>months to have a baby. My husband is 42 years old. I have been threw
>surgery to determine if their was blockage (nothing),and test after
>test. In January of 1998 I was pregant for about 4 weeks. I found out
>on Monday I was pregant by Friday I lossed the baby. The doctor tells
>me that I'm trying to hard. I have no idea what that means. My husband
>and I have made a decission, that if I'm not pregant by December that we
>stop. It's not what i want to do it's what i have to do. Every cycle I
>wait for the 10 day to do the ovulation kit, that day comes I test no
>matter what. By the 14th day I have ovulated sometime during that 5
>days. I make my husband have sex with me everyday, even when he is
>tired. I check by breast about 100 times a day. I pray (PLEASE, THIS
>TIME) by the 28th or 31st day of my cycle, I have bleeding. I cry and
>i'm angry and i hate everyone who says YOUR TRYING TO HARD!!!! until the
>10th day when I test and the process goes on and on for 2 years. I need
>help. Please let me know where I can get help to have a baby. I've got
>to give up someday and just adopt, but it's hard because i have never
>given up on anything in my life. But how long can i play with my and my
>husband emotions. Everyone keeps asking me are you pregant? or Is their
>any news you want to tell us? and so on and so on.... I HATE IT!!!!!

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