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Re: 3 girls and wanting a boyFrom: vanessa (anonymous@obgyn.net)Wed, 18 Jun 2003 18:14:04 -0500 (CDT)
At Tue, 17 Jun 2003, Anonymous wrote: > >I find it very hard not to judge you, but will keep my opinion regarding >your decision to myself. But, PLEASE, if you go through with this, GET >YOUR TUBES TIED AND YOUR HUSBAND "SNIPPED" afterward. > >At Tue, 17 Jun 2003, Katya wrote: >> >>Dear Stacey, >> >>Umm, just ask your doctor to do a CVS at 12 weeks? (earlier CVS may not >>be a great idea because of possible damage to the fetus' limbs). If you >>are in the United States, they will disclose the gender. I think Canada >>has a law against disclosing gender before 25 weeks to prevent people >>from doing what you are doing... Since there is no medical indication >>for a CVS with your history, you may have to pay for it yourself. >> >>I would use the time between now and CVS to step back and seriously >>consider if you are making the right decision. If you ever disclose >>this decision to your children, you may do incredible damage... and >>perhaps even if you don't disclose, your very attitude is doing damage >>already. Whatever you do, please don't treat your precious girls as >>second-class children, especially if this pregnancy turns out to be a >>boy after all. >> >>-- >>Katya >> >>At Tue, 17 Jun 2003, Stacey wrote: >>> >>>This may sound so terrible, but my husband and I have 3 very healthy >>>girls. We had thought we were done trying for the boy but just recently >>>found out we are expecting again. My EDD is Feb. 7th, 2004. We are >>>seriously contemplating not keeping this baby. I know it sounds >>>terrible and I am distraught over the whole situation, I have been >>>reading about Chorionic Villus Sampling (CVS) being done as early as >>>9-10 weeks of pregnancy, I know its only supposed to be used as a tool >>>to find out genetic disorders in fetus early. anyone >>>knows if its been preformed as a tool to find out the sex of your unborn >>>child >>I am so shocked at this I can only hope this is a sick attempt to cause a stir on the board. I have spent EVERYDAY since Feb. 5 on total bedrest to save our unexpected third child. It is barbaric to terminate a pregnancy based on sex of the child.I hope you reconsider this and as the previous poster stated make this your last pregnancy.
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