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Re: 3 girls and wanting a boy - Stacey, please read

From: lynn (anonymous@obgyn.net)
Tue, 17 Jun 2003 23:14:00 -0400

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Stacey, You mention below feeling "terrible" twice, "horrible" once, and "distraught" once...all in about 6 sentences. Please rethink this. I'm not here to judge you, but I think deep down you don't want to terminate this pregnancy JUST because it may be a girl. Let me throw this out at you --- let's pretend that you only have your first 2 girls. Then you find out you're pregnant with a third. You find out it's another girl early enough to abort, but decide against it. Now fast forward to your life today. Aren't you SO GLAD you didn't abort your precious child??? Can you even imagine your life without her??? Trust me, that is how you will feel, even if it's another girl. You won't remember what life was like without her. I can read between the lines of your post, and I can tell you are a caring and loving person. Don't make the biggest mistake of your life. Gosh, I would give anything to be in your situation right now, as would many people. I wish you the strength and wisdom to make a decision you can live with. Peace, Lynn

>From: anonymous@obgyn.net (Stacey)
>Reply-To: anonymous@obgyn.net
>To: Multiple recipients of list PREGNANCY-BIRTH
><pregnancy-birth@dns.obgyn.net>
>Subject: 3 girls and wanting a boy
>Date: Tue, 17 Jun 2003 19:46:53 -0500
>
>This may sound so terrible, but my husband and I have 3 very healthy
>girls. We had thought we were done trying for the boy but just recently
>found out we are expecting again. My EDD is Feb. 7th, 2004. We are
>seriously contemplating not keeping this baby. I know it sounds
>terrible and I am distraught over the whole situation, I have been
>reading about Chorionic Villus Sampling (CVS) being done as early as
>9-10 weeks of pregnancy, I know its only supposed to be used as a tool
>to find out genetic disorders in fetus early. I am wondering if anyone
>knows if its been preformed as a tool to find out the sex of your unborn
>child and if so how do you go about arranging it.
>Feeling so horrible!!!
>

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