Re: 3 girls and wanting a boy

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At Tue, 17 Jun 2003, Katya wrote: >
>Dear Stacey,
>
>Umm, just ask your doctor to do a CVS at 12 weeks? (earlier CVS may not
>be a great idea because of possible damage to the fetus' limbs). If you
>are in the United States, they will disclose the gender. I think Canada
>has a law against disclosing gender before 25 weeks to prevent people
>from doing what you are doing... Since there is no medical indication
>for a CVS with your history, you may have to pay for it yourself.
>
>I would use the time between now and CVS to step back and seriously
>consider if you are making the right decision. If you ever disclose
>this decision to your children, you may do incredible damage... and
>perhaps even if you don't disclose, your very attitude is doing damage
>already. Whatever you do, please don't treat your precious girls as
>second-class children, especially if this pregnancy turns out to be a
>boy after all.
>
>--
>Katya
>
>At Tue, 17 Jun 2003, Stacey wrote:
>>
>>This may sound so terrible, but my husband and I have 3 very healthy
>>girls. We had thought we were done trying for the boy but just recently
>>found out we are expecting again. My EDD is Feb. 7th, 2004. We are
>>seriously contemplating not keeping this baby. I know it sounds
>>terrible and I am distraught over the whole situation, I have been
>>reading about Chorionic Villus Sampling (CVS) being done as early as
>>9-10 weeks of pregnancy, I know its only supposed to be used as a tool
>>to find out genetic disorders in fetus early. I am wondering if anyone
>>knows if its been preformed as a tool to find out the sex of your unborn
>>child and if so how do you go about arranging it.
>>Feeling so horrible!!!
>

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