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Re: (CONT'D part 4) NEED URGENT ADVICE

From: Katya (anonymous@obgyn.net)
Tue, 25 Mar 2003 13:14:41 -0600 (CST)


Not to open a can of worms, but I actually disagree. Right now, your son has a loving father who is likely the biological father as well. I would venture to say that even if your current boyfriend is not a biological father of the baby, he is the REAL father of the baby - he is there for you and the kid, while the other guy is not. Preserving your existing family structure is in the best interests of the baby, not figuring out for sure who the sperm donor is.

If evidence emerges in several years that the ex-boyfriend is the biological father, then you can do the DNA test if you feel so compelled. Right now, just be thankful that things are OK, and sin no more (that includes using proper birth control).

Best wishes to you,

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Katya

At Tue, 25 Mar 2003, anonymous@obgyn.net wrote: > >This board has been "whacky" for a few days. I got the 3rd post just >fine. > >Now, in reply to Kendra... You NEED to be honest with your boyfriend >and have the DNA test done. That's they only way you are going to know >for sure. Because...ANYTHING IS POSSIBLE!! I know it's going to be >devastating to both of you but it has to be done. > >At Tue, 25 Mar 2003, anonymous@obgyn.net wrote: >> >>Kendra... Part 3 of your question never showed up... we don't know >>what your question is. It's better not to split up your question. You >>have a better chance to get a doc's reply if your post is "to the >>point". I thought your question was about baby hiccups because it was >>mixed-up with someone else's post! >> >>At Tue, 25 Mar 2003, Kendra wrote: >>> >>>This is all so confusing to me and I am extremely stressed. Another >>>question- when I went to the doctor in May for my UTI symptoms, would >>>they have tested me for pregnancy in my urinalysis? >>> >>>I could use any and all help. >>> >>>I do not feel comfortable speaking to my OBGYN about this. I don't feel >>>comfortable speaking to ANYONE about this. I am very ashamed. >>> >>>Thank you in advance for your time. >>> >>>I hope all these posts came out okay, despite being all divided up.




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