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Re: Trying to conceive and husband does not ejaculate during intercourse

From: jen (anonymous@obgyn.net)
Fri, 28 Feb 2003 10:23:25 -0600 (CST)

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At Fri, 28 Feb 2003, concerned wrote: >
>My husband and I have been actively trying to conceive since December
>2002 (although we have not been using birth control since January 2002).
>He has very little problem ejaculating during masturbation. Now that
>we’re trying to conceive, he masturbates to the point of ejaculation,
>then he quickly inserts his penis in my vagina and does his thing. (I
>should mention that we are both 31, we've been together since we were 19
>and he's ejaculated inside me a few times a year since we first became
>involved with each other).
>
>I'm worried that this will have a negative impact on our ability to
>conceive, however, I want to be sensitive to his feelings. I haven't
>told our family practitioner about it (I’m pretty shy when it comes to
>discussing our sex life with our doctor and I don't want to put my
>husband's business out there).
>
>Should we keep having sex the way we've been doing it for a year and go
>see a doctor if we haven't conceived by then or should we see someone
>before then? If we should see someone sooner, what kind of doc should we
>see and when should we go in for treatment? Should I be concerned about
>this at all???

Hi, i am not a dr. this is just my opinion. I am sure you could get pregnant this way because he will "finish" inside of you, right? Anyway, IF Iwere you I would think about perhaps seeing a therapist(some specialize in sexual issues, marital issues, etc....) Obviously he can ejaculate and it has happened before between the two of you, yet it doesn't sound very healthy to have to conceive this way or have a sexual relationship this way. Are you saying that he normally never ejaculates when you have sex? Obviously you have to do what is comfortable for you at this time, but be real with your feelings and think about all decision factors here. I am sure you will both figure out what is best for your realtionship(having a baby will put all new levels into the marital relationship) Best wishes.

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