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Re: for marcia and ab

From: AB (anonymous@obgyn.net)
Fri, 7 Feb 2003 23:19:05 -0600 (CST)

First of all, it is possible that you were drugged and raped at this party. One margarita is not enough to render you completely helpless like that. Please think very carefully about the circumstances surrounding that night. Ask your friend what else she remembers. If you need help immediately, there are 24 hour help lines you can call for both rape support and/or mental health support. Depending on your age and the age of those guys, it might have been statutory rape in any case. I am really really sorry that you had such a horrific experience, no matter what the circumstances.

Second, you can't worry right now about breaking your parent's hearts. You don't have to take care of them or protect them - it is the other way around. I can tell you now that I am a mother myself that if my daughter were in your shoes it would break my heart to think of her suffering and going through hell and feeling like she was all alone. They may be upset, or angry at first, they may cry or ask you how you could have let that happen. But when the shock wears off, they will still be your parents, they will still love you, they will still stand on either side of you to hold you up. You are too young, and too scared, to face this alone. If it would help to start with your sister, try that. Again, your heart is in the right place for wanting to keep it from her because of her fertility issues, but you can't protect her either. You need to get help, and you need it now. This decision is too big to face alone, and you can't run away from it. Think carefully. Trust the people who love you to be there for you now. And be very very sure before you make your decision. I'm rooting for you.

At Fri, 7 Feb 2003, anonymous wrote: >
>thank both of you for not being mean. i just prayed and i know i sound
>like an awful person now.

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