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Re: Husband that left

From: p (anonymous@obgyn.net)
Fri, 31 Jan 2003 16:02:00 -0600 (CST)

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I don't know your husband and it's difficult to judge him when we know nothing about his character. All i know is that he may be hurting just as much as you. His emotions had to go on a roller coaster ride too. I remember you said you didn't really plan on this pregnancy and had to get used to the idea. I'm sure he felt the same way. It is no excuse for running out but sometimes that's all they know how to do. We can sit down and cry about it and share our feelings but the guys are a bucket of emotions and don't know what to do about it. I'm sure he feels bad but you should sit down with him and let him know your feelings about it and encourage him tell you his feelings too. I have a wonderful husband but he has done that leaving thing before when something very emotional is happening. To women it seems stupid but to men it is a logical way to "remove themselves" from the situation that is making them feel like they will explode. If counciling seems the only way to help-do it--it is so worth it. You promised eachother "for better or worse" - nicely remind him of that.

At Fri, 31 Jan 2003, Amy wrote: >
>Husband has called to apologize. I am so mad at him!!! I have had to
>reschedule my procedure (d&c) because I had the kids this morning- both
>of them sick- and could not make my appointment. (Husband was supposed
>to be home watching them for me) He said that he is willing to go to
>counseling and that he is sorry. I don't even know what to say to him
>this evening when he comes home from work. Should I say nothing and be
>quiet? Should I give him a verbal bashing and let him know how
>unacceptable this is? Should I dangle my emotions in front of him and
>let him know how much he hurt me? I don't know what to do other than
>pray. Thank you all for your support. Sorry to dump all of this on the
>forum just wanted to update everyone. It really helps being able to
>talk to all of you.

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