PREGNANCY-BIRTH Messages for January, 2003: Re: Husband left -To Amy

Re: Husband left -To Amy

From: kathy

anonymous@obgyn.net

Fri, 31 Jan 2003 10:59:50 -0600 (CST)

At Fri, 31 Jan 2003, lynn wrote: >
>Amy,
>I'm so sorry for what you're going through. I'm not quite as sympathetic as
>the other women who answered. In fact, I am angry for you. How dare he
>leave you with 2 small children the day you are going in for a D&C!!! Now,
>more than ever, you need him and his support, and he chooses to run away and
>not take you or the kids into consideration at all. Very immature way to
>handle this. I feel so bad for you. True, he may just be "cooling off", but
>screw that. I hope you give him hell when he does come home. I hope this is
>not a pattern for him. My hubby knows if he ever did that, he'd find his
>stuff on the front lawn when he came home. If he did leave because you were
>speaking on this forum, to me, that was just an excuse. There is NOTHING
>wrong with you looking for support and help from doctors and women who have
>been in your shoes. My hubby was great thru all 6 of my miscarriages as much
>as he could be, but he always admitted to not feeling as devastated as I
>did. Guess it's different when it's growing in your body. That's why I like
>this forum -- others can totally relate to what you're going through. So,
>don't let him make you think you did anything wrong. You didn't. He did.
>Take care, be strong and let us know what happens.
>Peace,
>Lynn
>

>>At Fri, 31 Jan 2003, Heidi wrote:
>> >
>> >Amy, give him some time, he'll be back. Some men do not understand that
>> >while we love them and appreciate their support, sometimes it helps to
>>have
>> >others that have been through what you have. Your posts do not leave an
>> >email to which you can be contacted, you could be one of many Amy's
>>around
>> >the world. No one knows who you are, or your husband for that matter.
>>Once
>> >he understands that, he may feel better.
>> >
>> >I hope things get better for ya hon...
>> >
>> >(((((((Amy))))))
>> >Heidi
>> >
>

>> >>>
>

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