PREGNANCY-BIRTH Messages for January, 2003: Re: Husband left -To Amy

Re: Husband left -To Amy

From: lynn (anonymous@obgyn.net)
Fri, 31 Jan 2003 11:10:33 -0500

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Amy, I'm so sorry for what you're going through. I'm not quite as sympathetic as the other women who answered. In fact, I am angry for you. How dare he leave you with 2 small children the day you are going in for a D&C!!! Now, more than ever, you need him and his support, and he chooses to run away and not take you or the kids into consideration at all. Very immature way to handle this. I feel so bad for you. True, he may just be "cooling off", but screw that. I hope you give him hell when he does come home. I hope this is not a pattern for him. My hubby knows if he ever did that, he'd find his stuff on the front lawn when he came home. If he did leave because you were speaking on this forum, to me, that was just an excuse. There is NOTHING wrong with you looking for support and help from doctors and women who have been in your shoes. My hubby was great thru all 6 of my miscarriages as much as he could be, but he always admitted to not feeling as devastated as I did. Guess it's different when it's growing in your body. That's why I like this forum -- others can totally relate to what you're going through. So, don't let him make you think you did anything wrong. You didn't. He did. Take care, be strong and let us know what happens. Peace, Lynn

>From: anonymous@obgyn.net (Amy)
>Reply-To: anonymous@obgyn.net
>To: Multiple recipients of list PREGNANCY-BIRTH
><pregnancy-birth@mail.medispecialty.com>
>Subject: Re: Husband left
>Date: Fri, 31 Jan 2003 09:57:17 -0600
>
>amygwynn@austin.rr.com I am the same Amy that needed emotional support
>yesterday. Husband is still not back...
>At Fri, 31 Jan 2003, Heidi wrote:
> >
> >Amy, give him some time, he'll be back. Some men do not understand that
> >while we love them and appreciate their support, sometimes it helps to
>have
> >others that have been through what you have. Your posts do not leave an
> >email to which you can be contacted, you could be one of many Amy's
>around
> >the world. No one knows who you are, or your husband for that matter.
>Once
> >he understands that, he may feel better.
> >
> >I hope things get better for ya hon...
> >
> >(((((((Amy))))))
> >Heidi
> >

>> >>----- Original Message -----
> >From: "Amy" <anonymous@obgyn.net>
> >To: "Multiple recipients of list PREGNANCY-BIRTH"
> ><pregnancy-birth@mail.medispecialty.com>
> >Sent: Friday, January 31, 2003 4:05 AM
> >Subject: Husband left
> >
> >> Please help. I don't know what happened. Husband just kind of
>exploded
> >> about all of this pregnancy stuff and got mad about me posting to the
> >> forum and just packed a bag and left. He knows that I am scheduled for
> >> D&C tomorrow. He has left me with a 1 yr old and a 4 yr old. It is
> >> almost 3 in the morning and he does not care. He left. I don't
> >> understand why.
> >>
>

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