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Re: sensitive question, advice appreciated

From: A (anonymous@obgyn.net)
Tue, 28 Jan 2003 13:39:02 -0600 (CST)

You are descibing so many women in this country. Your hormones are all still involved because of breast feeding and the baby not sleeping. Many divorces happen because people mistake this for not being "in love" anymore...don't be mistaken. This is a new phase in your life and your love must be mature enough to handle some time when sex is not the all important thing. Your husband should do some reading about it so he knows he's not alone. You will bounce back and even then, when the baby is a little older and then again when they hit another age...things will be changing in your relationship. There is a deepening of the love and commitment and should be an understanding of love not being a feeling (for instance, being upset with him for doing something that was upsetting--it doesn't mean you don't love him) People see love as just a feeling and when that "feeling" is gone they think the relationship is over or never was what they were looking for. Be there for eachother right now. Be kind and loving and care for one another and later, you'll have the best sex ever!

At Tue, 28 Jan 2003, anonymous@obgyn.net wrote: >
>Hello
>I am 7 months pp, and am still on leave from work as I took unpaid
>extended leave to spend time with my baby.
>I have suffered from Post oartum depression and am taking a low dose of
>Zoloft (as I am still breastfeeding).
>I have a caring husband and everything should be rosy, but I just don't
>want sex anymore..Our baby sleeps little, and when he does sleep, my
>husband wants us to be intimate..but I am soooo tired.
>I have tried explaining this to him, but he feels rejected, like I am
>not in love with him anymore.
>Am I abnomal? I used ti have a high sex drive
>HELP
>
>Thanks

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