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Re: forced into abortion -can't live with myself

From: Alicia (anonymous@obgyn.net)
Wed, 8 Jan 2003 14:18:22 -0600 (CST)

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I can not even begin to imagine what you are going through. I was 18 when I found out that I was pregnant - and was so scared to tell my parents. Unlike yours they were very supportive. I wish your parents would have thought about it a little more. You should really talk to someone like a counselor or another adult you trust. Just talking about may help...I'm sorry that you have to go through this and I'll keep you in my prayers. Just remember that this situation is not your fault, you are not a murderer. It's going to be tough but as long as you talk to someone regularly, you'll be ok. Keeping it inside and staying depressed will only make things worse. Best of luck hunn. >
>At Tue, 7 Jan 2003, anonymous wrote:
>>
>>I posted here in november after I found out i was pregnat. I am only 17
>>and wanted to put the baby up for adoption. My parents were so angry
>>with me and told me i had to get out of the house or have the abortion.
>>I didnt think i had a choice since I have nowhere else to go. I got
>>lots of nice words from people here but my own parents couldnot except
>>it. I had the abortion a few weeks ago and am having a very hard time
>>dealin with it. i cry all the time and every day tell myself how far
>>along i would be if i didnt have it. i know when my due date comes
>>around i will be a basketcase. i feel like such a bad person and i hate
>>myself. i was doing very good in school until this. now i'm failing
>>and i know my parents will flip when they find out. the truth is i
>>can't seen to concentrate on school work. i only can think about my
>>baby that i killed. Its been 3 weeks and hasnt gotten any better. will
>>the pain ever go away? plez dont tell me i deserve this - i already know
>>i'm a terrible person and a murderer.
>>Signed,
>>A Confused Murderer
>

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Alicia, age 19
1st pregnancy
due may 18th

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