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Re: WHERE'S THE JUSTICE???? Love to hear from women TTC...
From: kelly (anonymous@obgyn.net)
Wed, 30 Oct 2002 22:30:56 -0600 (CST)
I have been TTC for 3 years, 3 miscarriages... I hear ya!!! It has to
be the most frustrating thing. EVERY single talk show seems to have to
do with people that get pregnant, don't know who the father is, have no
desire to have a child, can't financially or mentally handle a child,
and have no reason getting pregnant. It sucks and it is VERY unfair.
At Wed, 30 Oct 2002, Eni wrote:
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>I hear you sweetie. You've just described a couple of my in-laws.
>Unfortunately, there is no justice. I don't understand it either. I
>really don't.
>
>At Wed, 30 Oct 2002, LS wrote:
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>>I am 37, a Senior VP of a major retailer, have been married to the same
>>man for 13 years, and TTC for over 5 years now. I've had repeat
>>miscarriages, each one a devastating loss. Now, I find out my alcoholic
>>sister-in-law is pregnant AGAIN, with child number 2. She drank thru
>>her entire first pregnancy. She was even drunk at her shower. She
>>smokes too. Apparently, she is already in her second trimester and is
>>having a textbook pregnancy...no morning sickness, no tiredness,
>>nothing. Where's the justice? This news comes to me right on top of my
>>parent's neighbor, on Welfare, not married, not working, pregnant with
>>number FIVE. She too is a class act and smokes like a chimney thru her
>>pregnancies and sleeps around and probably doesn't know who the father
>>is with this kid too. Again, I ask, Where's the Justice??? It's hard
>>enough to see good, decent people getting pregnant around me....but I
>>think these last 2 are going to push me right over the edge. Sorry if I
>>sound bitter. I'm really not. Just at the end of my rope.
>>Does anyone else out there that is TTC feel like the World is an unfair
>>place??? If so, please write.
>>Signed,
>>Fed Up
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