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Re: Does this make sense to anyone ?

From: Annette (anonymous@obgyn.net)
Fri, 7 Jun 2002 00:58:07 -0500 (CDT)


I so understand what you are feeling! My first pregnancy ended in a painful miscarriage which required a D&C. I WAS DEVESTATED. At that time there were also news reports of people abusing/killing children. Then there were those around me who were pregnant, some wanted to be, others didn't. I just looked at these women and questioned, "Why can't I be pregnant like her?"

Then it seemed like I couldn't get pregnant which brought on even more anxiety and pain. At that time, no one understood what I was going through, not even my husband.

This stage of my life was extremely difficult and so I understand what you are going through.

In time we conceived again and the second time I carried the child to term. God's delay was not God's denial. I strongly encourage you, since you appear to be a person of faith, to read I Samuel chapters 1 & 2. The story of Samuel and Hannah really helped me through that tough time. Also remember that for everything there is a time and a season (Ecclesiastes 3: 1-8). It may just not be your season yet.

Good luck to you and even though I do not know you I will be praying for you.

At Tue, 4 Jun 2002, Brenda wrote: >
>I've been TTC-ing for almost a year , and on Clomid. Yesterday , there
>was a newspaper report bout a woman who was being convicted for the
>murder of her newly born baby , and I have been crying non-stop since
>reading it. How can God give the gift of children to such irresponsible
>, uncaring women , and deny women who would make good Moms ? Its almost
>as if He does not understand why I want a child of my own , when there
>are so many abandoned , orphaned kids out there who really need Moms . A
>lot of people have told me that a Mom who needs a child and a child who
>needs a Mom should be brought together , that conception is purely a
>biological issue , while parenting is not.
>
>I would love to adopt an orphaned baby and give that child a home , but
>is it so wrong to want an offspring of your own flesh and blood ? I pray
>that God's delay is not God's denial. Anyone else had this feeling and
>can relate to it ?

--
Annette



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