Re: Loss at 18 wks due to ABS - need support. Thank you.

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Sun, 31 Mar 2002, Jules wrote: >
>Thank you for sharing your story. God bless you and I pray for you to
>conceive a healthy baby. I feel better today than yesterday, but the
>fog of disappointment and loss are still there. I have no one to blame,
>but can't understand such a freak occurance. My faith in God is strong
>and has helped my husband and I to cope. Your sharing is wonderful for
>me, I am scared to death of the surgery - and the recovery. Having to
>carry the baby around for 5 days is very difficult too. I choose not to
>go anywhere in public til its over because I think that it's too
>devestating for me to see people like this. I was actually looking
>pregnant and then after finding out - my belly shrunk and I could were
>regular pants again. I just keep thinking about this child inside me
>that had distinct features, a face...even at 18 weeks. But...thank you
>again. I will look at the website you suggested and we will try again.
>We will have the remains creamated and will ask our pastor friend to
>come say a word to commit the child to God. I think we will spread them
>in our butterfly garden so we can always see the flutter of the spirit.
>Thank you again, and blessings...
>
>--
>Jules
>

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