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Re: birth questions from hubby

From: anonymous@obgyn.net
Thu, 14 Mar 2002 10:31:21 -0600 (CST)


I agree with Spela on that one. It's a matter of perspective. Besides, I have no personal plans on denying myself as a sexual being simply because I'm giving birth to a beautiful child. I think it's a best of both worlds scenario. And, on an end note, if we were not sexual beings (contigent on consensuality, of course), how would the kiddos get here? I don't think either is selfish - just a part of human nature.

>>All I can add to this is - I've delivered triplets. Read that???
>>TRIPLETS = 3 babies. And our sex life is just the same as ever. My
>>vagina is NORMAL. I didn't tear, or have an episiotomy. I had a
>>natural labour. I have other female friends who claim sex improved for
>>them after labour.
>>
>>And sex cannot compare to the joy of raising children. Sex is
>>ridiculous compared to the profundity of childraising. I've never heard
>>of anything so selfish in all my life.
>
>Please do not accuse me of being selfish.
>It is quite possible to describe the desire to have children as selfish,
>especially in an overpopulated world.
>
>I don't want to start a flame war. But I just wanted to point out that
>ANY decision can be viewed as selfish - by choosing a different angle:
>
>People who choose not to have clidren (see http://www.childfree.com) claim that
>all reasons to have children are selfish.
>
>On the other hand, people with children claim that people who don't want
>children are selfish.
>
>It's all a matter of perspective.

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Anonymous



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