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Re: birth questions from hubby

From: Spela (anonymous@obgyn.net)
Thu, 14 Mar 2002 10:17:37 -0600 (CST)


At Tue, 12 Mar 2002, Isabelle wrote: >
>All I can add to this is - I've delivered triplets. Read that???
>TRIPLETS = 3 babies. And our sex life is just the same as ever. My
>vagina is NORMAL. I didn't tear, or have an episiotomy. I had a
>natural labour. I have other female friends who claim sex improved for
>them after labour.
>
>And sex cannot compare to the joy of raising children. Sex is
>ridiculous compared to the profundity of childraising. I've never heard
>of anything so selfish in all my life.

Please do not accuse me of being selfish. It is quite possible to describe the desire to have children as selfish, especially in an overpopulated world.

I don't want to start a flame war. But I just wanted to point out that ANY decision can be viewed as selfish - by choosing a different angle:

People who choose not to have clidren (see http://www.childfree.com) claim that all reasons to have children are selfish.

On the other hand, people with children claim that people who don't want children are selfish.

It's all a matter of perspective.




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