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Re: hubby changed mind about kids, any advice?

From: pk (anonymous@obgyn.net)
Thu, 14 Mar 2002 07:37:54 -0600 (CST)

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At Thu, 14 Mar 2002, Maggie, wrote: >I would have to agree with the doctor. Your husband seems to have issues. It sounds to me that there is something more to the baby issue then your body. If all he is concerned about is your appearance then your happiness you need to have a serious discussion with him. Your appear to be a petite woman who takes pride in yourself and that dosen't have to change. I have 2 children and I am 5'10 and 110lbs even 5months post-partum because I exercise regularly. As far as vaginal stretching I promise things do go back to normal. Children are alot of work!!! The love and support of a spouse in raising children is very important especially since you are a med student. I know several women doing their residency who have children and I see how difficult it is for them. Please make sure both of you are ready for a family before taking any step. Best of Luck!!!
>Hi ladies and doctors,
>
>I posted a message a couple of weeks ago about my husband and I deciding
>to ttc. He's changed his mind now. (good thing I haven't finished this
>BCP pack!) He thinks that having a baby now will ruin my "perfect body",
>and stretch out my vagina to the point that sex will no longer be
>enjoyable.
>
>I'm 5'1", and 110 lbs, work out lots, and he wants me to stay that way.
>I REALLY want a baby. Any advice?? (I've already tried talking,
>begging, showing him your posts, etc.....)
>
>Anything would be appreciated.
>
>Thanks.
>
>--
>Maggie
>
>--
>Maggie Beth Anderson
>Medical Student at University of Washington
>

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