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Now play nice kids.

Dr. M

At Sun, 24 Feb 2002, Jill wrote: >
>I came here with questions, which got me flamed b/c I apparently am
>wrong in mourning my c-section (did I even ask anyone's opinion about MY
>feelings about MY c-section?). I am really befuddled at the lack of
>courtesy on this board, and feel there should be an objective moderator.
>There is a contingent of "ladies" here who simply sit at their computers
>and wait for ANY post they can spit at, gang up and attack women for
>their FEELINGS! I realize this board is open to all women, midwives,
>OBs, nurses; but it seems to me that the person "replying" should have
>something to say regarding the question at hand - not just comentary on
>the woman asking the question! Anyone wanting another example besides
>myself should look to the recent posted question on listeria which was
>flamed 8 or so times simply because the poor woman wanted a medical
>opinion. Not ONE poster had anything to say about listeria! As for the
>recent post (from an "anonymous" person, ha ha) to ME implying I am the
>one doing the flaming, I challenge you to find ONE post where I acted
>like these women... attacking. Every post I am 1)asking a question,
>2)responding with personal experience to a question 3)correcting false
>information by another who was hypothesizing and I have personal
>experience or 4)defending an initial attack on ME. I am going to go
>back to my regular HELPFUL WELCOMING boards, as this one seems to be
>very childish and catty. I came here for medical advice (or advice from
>women with personal experience that relates to my question) and
>discovered a very hostile environent indeed. Anyone else feel this way
>here? (I know the poor listeria poster must).
>
>--
>Jill Mooneyham
>mother of Matthew, 3/22/00
>another son arriving in July!
>

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Harvey S. Marchbein, M.D. FACOG, FACS
Great Neck, New York

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