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Is this not a help board??? Why are some of the women here picking fights? Moderator?

From: Jill (anonymous@obgyn.net)
Sun, 24 Feb 2002 19:40:12 -0600 (CST)

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I came here with questions, which got me flamed b/c I apparently am wrong in mourning my c-section (did I even ask anyone's opinion about MY feelings about MY c-section?). I am really befuddled at the lack of courtesy on this board, and feel there should be an objective moderator. There is a contingent of "ladies" here who simply sit at their computers and wait for ANY post they can spit at, gang up and attack women for their FEELINGS! I realize this board is open to all women, midwives, OBs, nurses; but it seems to me that the person "replying" should have something to say regarding the question at hand - not just comentary on the woman asking the question! Anyone wanting another example besides myself should look to the recent posted question on listeria which was flamed 8 or so times simply because the poor woman wanted a medical opinion. Not ONE poster had anything to say about listeria! As for the recent post (from an "anonymous" person, ha ha) to ME implying I am the one doing the flaming, I challenge you to find ONE post where I acted like these women... attacking. Every post I am 1)asking a question, 2)responding with personal experience to a question 3)correcting false information by another who was hypothesizing and I have personal experience or 4)defending an initial attack on ME. I am going to go back to my regular HELPFUL WELCOMING boards, as this one seems to be very childish and catty. I came here for medical advice (or advice from women with personal experience that relates to my question) and discovered a very hostile environent indeed. Anyone else feel this way here? (I know the poor listeria poster must).

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Jill Mooneyham
mother of Matthew, 3/22/00
another son arriving in July!

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