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Re: 23 weeks pregnant and can't stop worrying -BTDT

From: Kim (anonymous@obgyn.net)
Sat, 2 Feb 2002 11:26:12 -0600 (CST)


Hi Hon, I'm not a doc but I've been (and still am) where you are. I'm 33 weeks w/#3 (#4 PG) and after PTL with #2, and a traumatic miscarriage between #2 and this one, and a mentally rough assisted conception, I've been a basket case for exactly -- 33 weeks! First it was betas, then heartbeat, then IC, then PTL - now that I'm well beyond viability, I've moved on to cord accidents, listeria, abruption, chorio, you name it.

I can't offer much advice other than to say I've been there and worrying isn't a "premonition" that something will go wrong. I try to remember this and also that I was scared to death from 26 weeks on w/#2 as we fought PTL, but she arrived safely and perfectly healthy (albeit a few weeks early) and I've had no real troubles this time around, so IT CAN BE DONE. I see a counselor 2x month but honestly, it's not really helping me -- what will help is this baby arriving safely in the next few weeks.

Hugs to you for all the stress, A BTDT #3 Mom

t Sat, 2 Feb 2002, anonymous@obgyn.net wrote: >
>Hello,
>I am currently 23 weeks pregnant with my first baby. Everything seems
>to be doing fine. He is very active and all scans have shown good
>growth etc. Fundal height is right on target accoring to my last
>appointment last week.
>I am sjust so very scared that all is going to go wrong, that either my
>son will die at birth or that my water will break soon and he will die
>that way.
>I really dislike myself for these thoughts, but I can't seem to shake
>tham off.
>This is all made worse by the fact that I had a m/c at 8 weeks just
>previous to this pregnancy (no period inbetween).
>Is this a rational fear??
>is there anything that I can do to help me enjoy my pregnancy??
>Thanks for listening to me
>
>Have a great weekend.




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