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Re: A long question about possible pregnancy

From: michelle (anonymous@obgyn.net)
Mon, 11 Sep 2000 15:52:54 -0500 (CDT)

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At Mon, 11 Sep 2000, John wrote: >
>Hello everybody and thank you in advance for any help.
>
>I would first like yo say that I have been searching the archives for 2
>days before posting this and I am pretty sure most of the things I ask
>have already been covered but this forum is pretty big! so pleased do
>respond ...
>
>The situation is this: my girlfriend and I had are first intercourse 5
>weeks ago, she had no prior relations of this sort so naturally this is
>when she lost her virginity. Uptil the time she should have had her
>period (2 weeks ago) we did this quite often. But now her period is 2
>weeks late,
>and the weird thing is we were allways protected, I used condoms
>everytime, it never sliped or tore, I never entered her without it, and
>when I disposed of the condom I never touched her before washing my
>hands with soap at least a couple of times with a lot of water (and I
>think this is the only point that could have gone wrong if she is
>pregnant but I was careful).
>
>Well anyway, she says she allways has a her period every 28 days, she is
>21 and she has only been delayed 2 or 3 days, for only a few times. So
>as time for the period approached she felt it coming as she normally
>does, but never got it. Since then her nipples are sore -not her
>breasts- which is unusual for her. She feals tired a lot, (but she
>feels tired whenever she is under stress), she's been having mild cramps
>every now and then like the ones she normally gets when she has her
>period (they started a few days after the period should have), since she
>lost her virginity, her discharged has changed a bit, no changes in
>smell but its just a bit thicker and whiter, but a week ago I think it
>changed back to the state you get just after the period ...
>We did 2 home pregnancy test, one on the 4th day of delay, one on the
>7th day ... The second one we did with the first morning urine, both
>were negative, no lines, no dots nothing, (only the ones that showed
>that the tests worked were ok, so no problem about the use of it ...)
>
>So looking at all these, what do you think, what would you advise? Could
>this be a missed ovulation which never happened to my girl friend
>before? Could it be that she is pregnant although the tests and
>protection? Could it be something to do with the fact that it was the
>first time and affected her body? Or simply, what do you think it could
>be? We are in a loss and don't know what to do ...
>If you think any specific information could be of help please ask, there
>might be something that we missed.
>
>Sorry for this extremely long letter, any info/help appreciated. Thanks
>again

BEST BET IS TO GO THE DR AND GET A BLOOD TEST AND EXPLAIN ALL THIS TO THEM, MY FIRST PREGNANCY I NEVER GOT A + PREG TEST EVEN WHEN I ALREADY HAD ULTRASOUNDS TO PROVE IT, LOL, THEYALWASY CAME UP SHOWING I WAS DOING THE TEST RIGHT BUT I WASNT PREGNANT, WHICH WAS A LIE, TEHRE ARE ALOT OF FALSE NEGATIVES OOUT THERE, FROM WHAT I READ PREGNANCY IS A POSIBILY, BUT IT COULD ALSO BE STRESS, STRESS FROM HER MAYBE WORRYING ABOUT GETTING PREGNANT BEING HER FIRST TIME AND ALL, STRESS CAN CAUSE PREGNANCY SYMPTOMS AND A DELAYED PERIOD. HOEP I WAS SOME HELP:) MICHELLE

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