Re: Am I hurting the baby?

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Tonja

At Wed, 30 Aug 2000, Esmeralda wrote: >
>Yes, I want to be sure it's a boy.
>
>-----Original Message-----
>From: anonymous@obgyn.net [mailto:anonymous@obgyn.net
>Sent: Wednesday, August 30, 2000 2:46 PM
>To: Multiple recipients of list PREGNANCY-BIRTH
>Subject: Re: Am I hurting the baby?
>
>Any time someone does something against your will that hurts you either
>physically or emotionally, it is NOT okay. If you've asked your husband
>to stop the rough horseplay, explained that it hurts, etc. and he has
>ignored your wishes, it might be time to get serious with him and/or
>seek some counseling. Furthermore, a 33-week pregnant mother being
>pushed off of a bed is NOT okay under any circumstances and by all
>means, this behavior needs to stop ***immediately.*** Your baby's most
>likely okay physically as he's well protected in there, but if for
>nothing other than respect for his wife and unborn child, your husband
>needs to comply with your wishes and behave appropriately. If you're
>concerned about injury to your baby, don't hesitate to mention it to
>your doctor.
>
>Intercourse should be fine unless you've been advised otherwise by a
>medical caregiver or unless it results in regular contractions. As far
>as the sono, most doctors won't do a sono this late in the game simply
>for the purpose of determining sex, but if you feel comfortable asking,
>you don't have much to lose.
>
>I would be more concerned with the other issue, frankly. I'm sure your
>husband means no harm to you or your baby, but when his wife is reduced
>to tears after "play," it's time to stop.
>
>Good luck to you...
>
>Tonja
>
>At Wed, 30 Aug 2000, anonymous@obgyn.net wrote:
>>
>>I wanted to ask, my husband i sometimes very tuff he plays to tuff, and
>>sometimes pushes me around or pushes me off the bed but very ruff, and
>>that hurts my feelings so i start crying, and i cry for ever, could the
>>baby be hurt that way, or is it okay that he does that? and is having
>>intercourse with him okay this far along that i am? I wanted to ask too,
>>i want to know if i am having a boy they had told me at the hopital that
>>it was a boy but could i ask my doctor for a sono done, or is it to late
>>i will be 33 weeks when i go back.
>
>--
>Tonja Brossette
>OBGYN.net Coordinator
>Pregnancy & Birth
>tonja.brossette@obgyn.net
>

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Tonja Brossette
OBGYN.net Coordinator
Pregnancy & Birth
tonja.brossette@obgyn.net

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