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From: anonymous@obgyn.net
Sun, 20 Aug 2000 20:21:21 EDT


Victor, Victor, Victor, You may not like what I have to say--but listen-it is the turth. It seems to me that you are being a bit selfish here. You are only concerned with how your lady is affecting you. Have you even taken the time to consider what this pregnancy is doing to her??? Your email only talked about what this is doing to you.

No wonder your lady is being difficult. Pregnancy (ESPECIALLY in the first trimester) is hard enough. You have UNCONTROLABLE mood swings, you are EXHAUSTED all the time, you are SICK -THROWING UP all of the time. And now is this poor woman's man is stomping his feet and acting like a little kid because SHE can't tend to YOUR WANTS AND DESIRES.

If you want to help her and have her back, you have to deal with yourself first and see why you are the type of person that can't handle tough times. Go to a counselor for yourself-by yourself.

Why the heck are you even thinking about marriage if you can't be there for her now. What is going on with her is because she is PREGNANT WITH YOUR CHILD!!!! This is what the pregnancy hormones are doing to her. It is not something she can control. It is not something that you can control. It is something that she has to deal with and IT IS SOMETHING THAT YOU HAVE TO DEAL WITH. So PLEASE stop for a minute and think about her and what SHE IS GOING THROUGH. Wait it out and learn patience quickly. Sooner or later-you will have the same old person back-if you do not hurt her in the meanwhile with your words or actions. If you continue to go on this way-you might never have her back. You will lose in every way. Think about it.




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