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Re: I need some help....

From: Ali (anonymous@obgyn.net)
Mon, 8 May 2000 07:39:35 -0500 (CDT)


At Sat, 15 May 1999, William F. von Almen, II, MD wrote: >
>At Mon, 10 May 1999, mary wrote:
>>
>>-----Original Message-----
>>From: Martha Lough [mailto:anonymous@obgyn.net
>>
>>Hello. Nine years ago I gave birth to a baby with a diaphramatic
>>hernia. She did not survive a year. I was told back then by the
>>experts that if I should become pregnant again, I would be a very high
>>risk situation, having a sick baby again. The other day I confirmed
>>(via home test) that I am pregnant. I am very worried because this
>>pregnancy started off very bad; the past few weeks I drank many beers
>>and margaritas not even having a clue I was pregnant; I also now have
>>smelly discharge (like amonia and other pugent smells). I can't help
>>but to wonder if this is going to be another disaster. I have not yet
>>been to a doctor yet because #1 I just found out, #2 I am not sure I
>>want to go through with this. I simply can't deal with another sick baby
>>- financially nor emotionally. My husband has 3 kids from another
>>marriage and he doesn't (and couldn't possibly) comprehend what it would
>>be like to take care of a sick baby for life, even if it only lasted a
>>few months. Anyway, I am hoping you can comment on my situation. I
>>really don't know what to do but I have to make a decision shortly.
>>Thank you for taking the time to read my letter.
>Martha;
>I think the risk is probably around 4-5 percent of another child with a
>congenital anomaly. You must get into an ob right away, so he can begin
>treating you and setting up your evaluations. Good Luck to you
>
>--
>William F. von Almen, II, MD, FACOG
>Editorial Board, OB/GYN.NET Pregnancy and Birth
>New Orleans, La.
>
>The above comments are for educational purposes only.
>I have been under treatment become PG,but unsuccessful.

is it stress or perhaps something else? I am now waiting to start birth control pills for 3 weeks? I have already two daughters from a previous marriage. What does it seem like I can't be a mom again?




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