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Re: Pregnant and tricked husband

From: R. Daniel Braun, MD (anonymous@obgyn.net)
Thu, 27 Jan 2000 20:22:18 -0600 (CST)

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At Thu, 27 Jan 2000, karen wrote: >
>At Thu, 27 Jan 2000, Jodi wrote:
>>
>>At Wed, 26 Jan 2000, Confused wrote:
>>>
>>>I am pregnant now but I kind of tricked my husband and he now found out
>>>about it and has shut down emotinally to me. He has no interest in me
>>>or the baby, what do I do now?
>>
>>I myself am in the same situation. Only I told my husband
>>each time, and he told me not to get pregnant. I did it
>>3 times. We lost the middle child. We had a little girl
>>in April, and he walked out when she was 3 months old. So
>>I guess I don't have advice, just sympathy. Let me know
>>if I can help!
>>
>>--
>>Jodi
>>
>my only advice is it takes two to become pregnant man & woman - egg &
>sperm - he could have used protection also if he wanted to prevent an
>unplanned pregnancy on his part. My husband is upset and even suggested
>abortion for the little boy i am carrying. Unexpectly got pregnant - no
>fault of either chances were 1:1000 - so i told him i would leave him
>rather than not have my son. - it forced him to open his mind and talk
>- we are now coping - EVERYTHING HAPPENS FOR A REASON! You did trick him
>- so you also must empathize with his feelings too. karen

You Ladies have answered this quite well. It is a lesson that we all learn somewhere in life that if something is based on deceit, it sure doesn't help relationships out very much. Long marriages are based on common trust and a lot of hard work.

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R. Daniel Braun, MD FACOG

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