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Re: If i go for abortion when pregnant with PCOS, will i ever get pregnant again?From: anonymous (anonymous@obgyn.net)Fri, 19 Sep 2003 04:39:47 -0500 (CDT)
Hi, Your FUTURE should be in your hands ,nobody elses.The decison to have an abortion is a massive one,far bigger than you may realise at the time.I had one two years ago.i was in an awful realtionship and felt I could not cope with another child.It was a heartbreaking decison and i cried alot before I wwent to the clinic.Nobody explained to me how I may feel after the abortion.And how I felt was AWFUL.I physically ached for the child I had lost.like you could not imagine.I grieved for the child ,I coudl nto stop crying,I could not even look at other babies.I would never have dreamed you coudl feel such loss for someone you had never known.added to that was the fact that due to my PCOS i also have to live with the fact that that it May have been my last chance and I threw it away.Please think long and hard before you make your decison because once its made it's made.if you have an abortion there is no going back>if you have any doubts,if you want to keep this baby even alittle bit then please dont have an abortion.Look into ways of getting help and support from friends,family and even charities if needs be.At th eend of the day this is jsu tmy opinon and it is YOUR decison,I can only tell my story and if doing that saves just one person form feeling the pain and regret I felt then i have achieved something.Yes alot of people have abortions and feel no pain or regret afterwards but there are also alot of women who do feel that pain and regret,but nobody talks about it.Its one of the last taboos.Ivillage have a support board for ladies that have had abortions and need a place to grieve,please take alook at that board so you get to see both sides of the story.Also if you can,find out exactly what stage of pregnancy you are at so you are under no illusions what you have inside you.Those basic diagrams you see dont tell the whole story.I didnt find out till afterwards and if i had known before hand i could never have gone through with an abortion.So please find all the information you can and make an informed decision.A DECISION THAT IS RIGHT FOR YOU. Take care X
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