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Re: Is there no help for non-pregnancy issues, people!?!?From: Connie (anonymous@obgyn.net)Wed, 16 Jul 2003 11:08:44 -0500 (CDT)
Ok I decided to use this post to express some ideas for everyone that posts and reads the posts. Please remember that everyone here is at a different stage of life. Also remember that as the case was with Wanda, there are many different situations with life that effect us each at different times. We are here to help each other, not be critical. I have spent alot of time thinking about this and I am very sorry that Wanda had to relive that experence. Believe me, I know how it can hurt to relive something painful, I lost a baby at age 19, and did not become pregnant again until I was 26. I still can remember when that child should have been born. Please be aware that you can hurt people by being critical or by not thinking that while they may have done something that you don't agree with, they may have had very good reason to do it. Without going into details there are many people who have had negative experences with adoption. So remember please be kind and don't be quick to judge or critise.
-- Connie At Tue, 15 Jul 2003, anonymous@obgyn.net wrote: > >I ACTUALLY AM ONE OF THE TEST BUNNIES FOR THE STOPCOIL PROCEDURE AND I >HAD IT DONE ON ME THREE YEARS AGO, I AM NOW NEWLY MARRIED AND IT WORKS >LIKE A CHARM. i AM REALLY GLAD THAT I HAD THIS DONE. ITS A 5 YEAR >STUDY SO HANG IN THERE.. > >At Fri, 6 Oct 2000, Joe-n-Kristy wrote: >> >>It is ever persons right to not take interest in the fertility aspects of >>PCOS, >>that is why it is unfair to say something like im sick of hearing about >>it. >>Well you don't have to read the posts on fertilit issues, and nobody >>expects >>people who don't have fertility issues to feel sorry for them, I don't ! >>Still there >>are many women on here that are going through and feel the same way I do >>about >>having children, and I will continue to discuss what PCOS has done to >>prevent me >>from doing so! >> >>Kristina Keen >>On Fri, 6 Oct 2000 15:28:19 -0500 AuroraeB@aol.com writes: >>> I feel that way too sometimes, >>> >>> I am child free by choice, meaning I do not want children, ever. >>> Also as >>> soon as enough weight is lost to safely and effectively perform the >>> >>> procedure, I am getting a tubal ligation to help ensure I never get >>> pregnant. >>> Unless that new "stopcoil" thing they are currently testing turns >>> out to be >>> a good permanant contraceptive option. I may go for it if it is >>> ever >>> approved and out of testing. >>> >>> I feel like I am not a "real" PCOS sufferer because I have no >>> interest in the >>> fertility angle at all. I just want my body to function properly >>> and to be >>> free from the risks of uncontrolled PCOS. If it were really a cure >>> for PCOS >>> to just remove the uterus and ovaries I would be hounding my Dr. to >>> do so, >>> but it is not that simple. >>> >>> It is a thin line to try and not be percieved as "insensitive" by >>> the pro >>> fertility crowd, but just the personal belief and choice to not be >>> interested >>> in conception at all is sometimes taken offense to. >>> >>> It is highly emotionally charged and I have witnessed and even been >>> sucked >>> into some pretty ugly scenes in the PCOS world over the >>> fertility/could care >>> less debate. >>> >>> Fertility in and of itself is so highly charged that I tend to try >>> and just >>> back off unless it is a fert neutral discussion or if I am really >>> pretty >>> snipe-y and want to assert that Childfree PCOS'ers deserve support >>> and >>> treatment too. >>> >>> Tracy >>>
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