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Am I expacting too much? I feel desperate - long messageFrom: asagao (anonymous@obgyn.net)Mon, 16 Jun 2003 05:19:06 -0500 (CDT)
I feel so alone in this one. I feel as if my bf does not help me enough. He thinks that recently being diagnosed with PCOS I exagerate everything too much. He thinks that this is a small problem, and does not understand the burden of not being able to get pregnant, my fight with weigth gain, my concerns about my future health, and my mood swings. We are living in The Netherlands and since the health care system here is so bad and slow, we are gonig to Germany for treatment. It is 3 hours train ride just to go there. We have to do this for every US exams or blood test. We are both working so this is very very difficult for us. No holiday this year. I am on Clomid since 4 months but nothing happens. I have those visual problems, they don't go away, my gynecologist does not care. Here it is impossible to have my eyes checked before 3-4 months, beacause this is considered "not urgent". My appointmnet with the ER is in 2 months again in Germany. I am practically starving myself, but, if I eat 1-2 normal meal, I gain 2 kilos and then I can only loose them in 1 week. My stomach is too big, I am almost always bloated. Not knowing if this is due to Clomid, or PCOS I feel so desperate. When I talk about all this with my bf, and when I say that I feel so desperate and sad, and useless, what he says is always "you exagerate every little problem too much!". This is not a little problem for me, I have nobody else to talk to, except him. But he is very concentrated on his work, he is always on business trips or work late, etc. How are you dealing with all these feelings alone? Am I expecting too much of him. I just feel so alone on this one, I just cannot deal anymore. I am so sorry that you had to read all this venting, but I needed to get it out. I really need some advice for dealing with this, thank you all.
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