PCOS Messages for April, 2003: Re: Babies: All a little too much today

Re: Babies: All a little too much today

From: Sonnet (anonymous@obgyn.net)
Thu, 10 Apr 2003 16:39:02 -0500 (CDT)

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Oh Mel!! ***HUGS*** times one million! I can't believe that someone would be so insensitive as to say that! Well OK, I guess I can believe it, but I'm still horrified for you. Honey you have EVERY right to feel that way, I would too! It's always been the most painful thing about TTC, the complete unfairness of it al. You and DH will make FABULOUS parents, and where are your kids??? while people who will just destroy their children's lives by not wanting them have like, 6. Why are the idiots always the fertile ones???? You're within your rights and don't feel guilty about feeling that way. Keep as much distance as you feel you need to cope with them and just keep on with your lives. What's the go with the adoption? Do you want to email me? I will say LOTS of prayers for you two, and I know without a doubt that if this little one is meant to be yours that they are a step nearer coming home to you every single day, even if it feels terrifying at the moment. Let me know how I can help you get through this week!!

Love, Sonn

ps - my boss is pg with her second, due 6 weeks later than us... she HATES the child she has, who stays with a babysitter 5 days a week so she doesn't have to deal with her. She hates being pregnant. I wish I could ask her why she went off bcp then!! When I mentioned to SOMEONE ELSE today that I felt like the luckiest woman in the world to finally be pregnant after everything, and I was enjoying every minute of my pg (aches and pains and all) she popped in with a nasty smile and "That's disgusting - I hope to God you never get pregnant again!" I am soooo ticked I don't know how to cope! But people say stupid sh*t, that's all there is to it.... Pity we have to dal with them!!

At Thu, 10 Apr 2003, Mel wrote: >
>Hi
>
>Please forgive my indulgent moment. My dh and I are really struggeling
>today. We are adopting after horrendious and unsucessfull fertility
>treatment, and soo want to be parents. We have been provisionally
>matched, which normally is great cause for celebration, however (isnt
>that word such a b*tch), this case has become soo complicated that we
>are now only 30% likely to be sucessful in adopting this little one.
>Aagggrrrrrrr! And to top it all , one of my dh colleagues had an affaire
>with another office work mate, and the result is a beautiful little boy.
>One of them actually said to my dh yesterday that it is such a shame
>that we cant have kids, as neither of them particularly want this one
>that they have, but they have decided to make the best of it. They are
>not together and really can't bear each other. We would give all we
>have for that chance!
>I feel so guilty resenting them thier gift, as that is in my opinion
>what children are, a gift not a right. It is so unlike either of us to
>feel as we do about other poeple having babies, as all of our friends
>have been blessed, and we adore spending time with them all, I guess we
>are a little over sensitised at the moment.
>I guess what i am really looking for from you guys is your thoughts and
>prayers, our court date is early next week, when we will hear either way
>about the adoption.
>Please keep us in your prayers, and thank you for listeneing
>Take great care
>Love
>Mel

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