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Babies: All a little too much todayFrom: Mel (anonymous@obgyn.net)Thu, 10 Apr 2003 05:40:30 -0500 (CDT)
Hi Please forgive my indulgent moment. My dh and I are really struggeling today. We are adopting after horrendious and unsucessfull fertility treatment, and soo want to be parents. We have been provisionally matched, which normally is great cause for celebration, however (isnt that word such a b*tch), this case has become soo complicated that we are now only 30% likely to be sucessful in adopting this little one. Aagggrrrrrrr! And to top it all , one of my dh colleagues had an affaire with another office work mate, and the result is a beautiful little boy. One of them actually said to my dh yesterday that it is such a shame that we cant have kids, as neither of them particularly want this one that they have, but they have decided to make the best of it. They are not together and really can't bear each other. We would give all we have for that chance! I feel so guilty resenting them thier gift, as that is in my opinion what children are, a gift not a right. It is so unlike either of us to feel as we do about other poeple having babies, as all of our friends have been blessed, and we adore spending time with them all, I guess we are a little over sensitised at the moment. I guess what i am really looking for from you guys is your thoughts and prayers, our court date is early next week, when we will hear either way about the adoption. Please keep us in your prayers, and thank you for listeneing Take great care Love Mel
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