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Re: Getting questions answeredFrom: Victoria (anonymous@obgyn.net)Fri, 31 Jan 2003 20:51:28 -0500
Since there seems to be a bit of confusion on what I wrote, I'll go a little farther, and not be PC. I'm not very happy to have someone give me negativity about ignoring posts or people personally. I don't mind helping, I enjoy doing it. I am sure that the rest of the regulars on this board who answer questions, have websites, etc. do the same. The problem is when it is "expected" of us regulars or we get called names or accused of things because we miss someone. There can be many reasons why a post doesn't get answered, none of them include being exclusionary or being rude on purpose, most of which have already been discussed ad nauseum here. In addition to being a support board, its for information, camaraderie, sharing. Support and sharing only happen when people as a group do it. That means positively putting into this board, as well as getting out of it. I understand lurkers, but at the same time, I want them to step forward now and then and be a part of this. We need more people to give to others, not just take. The people on the lists (this and others) who get the biggest support when good and bad goes on in their lives, are the ones who give and take with others. It takes a while to be known on the boards, especially if you are using the anonymous userid. You get that way participating. What I'm asking is that people be a part of us. Stretch out a hand of friendship. Sometimes it may take a bit before you're noticed for whatever reason. Be politely and maturely persistent. In real life, what happens if you start off a relationship making negative assumptions and getting angry at someone? Where does the relationship go? Is it what you want, is that your goal?
-- Victoria
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