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Re: Questions?!?!?

From: anonymous (anonymous@obgyn.net)
Wed, 30 Oct 2002 20:34:06 -0600 (CST)


At Mon, 28 Oct 2002, Christa wrote: >Hi there! hang in there, get on a protein diet ( atkins ) do excercise, drink water, and ask yourself if you still love your husband, if the answer is yes, there is a book that help me on a situation very simmilar to yours, is call the 5 leanguages of love, after I read it I try it and I also confronted my husband, told him how I felt, and that I was tired of the abuse ( by telling me how disgusting I look, and sleeping on the cauch ) that I was afraid to grow old with him, and I needed to know in what did I fail. ( he could not tell me one reason except my weight ) I told him that I would leave him, and he panic, right there ( I was so scare of his answer , I thougt he was going to said go ahead! )
I got into teraphy and help me regaing my self steem and gave me a sence of value and knowing what I want, it help my hubby realize he still loves me and respects me,he won't leave me ( unless I stop trying to take care of my self ). I wish you the best of the lucks and hope you question your self if this is the person you want to spend the rest of your life or if there are changes that have to be done. Think first what is that you want?, what you need? and what are you willing to change? and what you are not, then take steps tour your goals and talk to him.

God Bless

>I have just recently as late June been told that I probably suffer from
>something now known as "Syndrome X" or better known as "PCOS." I am not
>doing to well with this information.
>It has taken me around 6 years and quite a few doctors, that told me I
>was imagining things, to find someone who actually believed me and ran
>extensive tests. I was kinda relieved that she had told me that I have
>"something", but again scared to death.
>I had gained over 100 pounds after the birth of my youngest daughter and
>the doctors said it was post partum depression and that I was eating to
>much. They put me on countless diets and it never helped. I have been
>poked and prodded and no-one seem to be able to put two and two
>together.
>Why is this? Why is this "Syndrome" so hard to diagnose? Will I ever be
>able to play in the park with my kids like I want to without having to
>rest every 5 minutes? Will this weight ever come off? Do these pains in
>my chest suggest that I might be having heart problems? Will my marriage
>ever recover from this? My husband is so distant, he is not attracted to
>me anymore and would rather watch football or play video games than to
>touch me. This has been going on for years! Where can I find more
>information about this, and why doesn't my doctor know more than she
>does?
>I just feel so alone, and no-one can answer my questions or make me feel
>at ease.
>If anyone can help I would greatly appreciate it.
>
>Totally OVERWHELMED!!!!!!




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