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Re: Ladies..for encouragement ...can you please tell me your LOVE stories!! (give me hope..hahaha)

From: anonymous (anonymous@obgyn.net)
Fri, 18 Oct 2002 15:27:31 -0500 (CDT)


At Mon, 7 Oct 2002, anonymous wrote: > I'm sorry your down now. Don't stay there too long. From experience, I suggest you grieve that lost boyfriend and then move on quickly in search of your soul mate. Who ever that other guy was, he wasn't your soul mate. There are most definetly great guys out there and they are worth the wait.

I'm 31 and I've been with my husband since I was 20. He's 29 now. We met in college when I was a senior and he was a freshman!! I knew after about 5 days that I wanted to be with him forever. And I still feel that way 11 years later. We just celebrated our 5th year anniversary and we have a beautiful, adorable 2 year old daughter (with Down syndrome) that we adopted.

Since *you* asked, I don't feel guilty bragging.... pardon me if I sound sickening. My husband is an amazing catch. Every day I thank heaven for sending me such a wonderful guy. He's hardworking, really handsome, smart, friendly, encouraging and supportive. He could be a model, he's so handsome. And he's successful in his career as a dentist. Truth be told, if I were to fall down dead today, I know my body wouldn't be cold before there were a line of women (way prettier than me) stepping over me to get to him! He's a wonderful father and family man. He always says there's nothing he'd rather do with his time that just be with me and our daughter. It's like music to my ears!

As for me, I battle with my weight all the time. I'm about 190 lbs now - after dropping about 45 lbs in the past year. My hair is thinning at break-neck speed. My face often breaks out. I have unwanted hair in places I'd rather it not be - and in abundance.

But still his world revolves around me?!??! He'd dedicated, loyal and utterly faithful. My daughter and I are his universe and he says so all the time. We have a happy, balanced household. I'm loyal and faithful to him and just as supportive and encouraging as he is. We have a solid friendship and our relationship was built on a strong foundation of honesty and trust.

I certainly didn't tell him about my pcos at first. I was lighthearted and friendly and very, very open in the initial stages of our courting. We often had long discussions well into the night about love and sex and our expectations from life - and it was within the first few months that I gently sprung it on him all about my "condition" and the possible effects on my fertility, etc. By that point, he was as head over heels about me as I was about him and my pcos was only a part of the things that make me me. Take me or leave me... and he chose to TAKE ME!!!

And, in large part, I think it's my battle with pcos that makes me the sensitive, kind, fun-loving, open, funny person I am today... and he'd say (I know this for sure) that those are the qualities about me that he loves the most. I guess, in some way, I have my disease to thank for making me the kind of person this great guy wants to spend the rest of his days with.

Good luck to you and *expect* true love. DO NOT SETTLE.

>Hi....I have been so down about my break up..trying to get over it etc
>etc... I just wanted to hear from those of you who found loving giving
>wonderful husbands, boyfriends... How do they deal with weight and hair
>and everything... I confided in my ex...although he had problems when I
>gained some weight. He wasnt thrilled about the hair problems, but he
>seemed to deal with them ok. I just love to hear these stories... and
>how you have these men who help you feel so sexy and loved and special
>because of how they treat you !! :D Also tell me how handsome they are
>...hahahaha! Attraction to me has little to do with looks, but I think
>its cool to know they could be lady killers! :P Did any of them ever
>give up some Barbie looking thing for you...or pass on one they knew
>because they just couldnt get enough of you??? Thanks!!!!!!!!!!!!!!




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