PCOS Messages for August, 2002: Re: Miscarraige, 'insufficiency', stupid people, etc- another Valerie-Renee

Re: Miscarraige, 'insufficiency', stupid people, etc- another Valerie-Renee

From: Barb (anonymous@obgyn.net)
Sat, 31 Aug 2002 13:20:06 -0500 (CDT)

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Thanks Renee,

Yeah...that's a good way to save a marriage.What idiots! Bringing up a child in a toxic environment when now I don't want a child. That is the last thing on my mind now. The thoughts of all I went through with miscarriages...and with my ill health now...in all honesty...even if I were well..I would now not want any children as I haven't the patience I once had.I desired children all my life and do not know why now I have become so different. I have to face it that his family are quite ignorant and don't realize that a child is not the answer and don't they get it...I have had it with him and I am not well.Who in the hell would even look after this child.Certainly not him,as he cannot even manage to put a bannana peel in the garbage.He cannot even be a husband to me.

>
>I'm glad you told her off!!! You've given that jerk enough chances.
>
>I'm glad you didn't agree with your in-laws that adoption would help, or be
>good for the child at this point. Marriages in trouble should never add a
>child to the mix. It exacerabates the problems, and the child is in the
>middle.
>
>If you producing a child for him was so important, they would have had you go
>through a battery of fertility testing before marriage. I've actually heard
>of some people doing that.
>
>It's not your duty to provide a child, and it's not necessary to be a "full
>woman." The family's as bad as he is. Go figure.
>

I think the family always disliked me as I was the ONLY one without a child. Ignorance..go figure.!Not one of them went through miscarriages as I did. They don't know the loss's I suffered ,not to mention the toll it took on my body both mentally and physically.And to them a husband that goes out a drinks is a okay..as men have to get out. A 48 year old man going out and getting drunk shows disrespect for his wife and shows disrespect for himself.It also shows he can't handle things.

I need not say more.. Thanks again,

Barb >
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>Renee Cordrey, MSPT, MPH, CWS
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>Dwell in Possibility.
>--Emily Dickenson
>

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Sincerely,
Barb C.

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