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Re: Miscarraige, 'insufficiency', stupid people, etc- another Valerie rant (sorryFrom: anonymous@obgyn.netSat, 31 Aug 2002 00:39:28 EDT
Valerie girl "I FEEL YAH" I was with my husband for seven years and never got pregnant.I new he liked kids but he never shared with me that he wanted them really.We talked about it before i new i had pcos but at that time little was known about it or my doc new little to be more exact.I really thought kids were out of the question for me.I found out he was cheating with a nasty chick that lived above the bar he hung out at.It was a very trashy place one i wouldn't even patronize.She worked there and lived up stairs with her illegitamate son from a crack head.Just so you no what kinda of girl im talking about needless to say i didnt find out in time before he had this chick pregnant. I was just devestated i wanted to die.So to make a long story short he has two kids now.I have to see them at the mall,Grocery stores,I run into them everywhere i go it seems.If i dont i have everyone that ever new him telling me what a great dad he is and everytime they see him.Its getting a little better i have met a great guy who is willing to go the extra step needed.For us to have a child i pray it happens.As i pray it will for you.I have a friend who once told me childbirth is a gift from god i dont believe that anymore i think its totally biological and why would god give babies to 12 year olds and crack heads i politely told my friend that i believe in god but i also no for a fact even dogs have puppies.That god knows im a good person so if it was up to him to bless me with this gift.I would already have one of my own because even god knows i deserve it and so do you.Women like us just need a little extra help from medicine we need figure out how to get there and keep are chin up and not give up trying because someday we will have a bundle to call are own.i would hate to think of all the horror storys the women on this page have.Im sure we all have one.I am so very sorry for your loss.I had a miscarriage at 17 i didnt even no i was pregnant but i often worry that was as close as i will get to be a mother.I am 30 now and have never became pregnant again.So i have just now started this long journey.I have been thinking of trying clomid as soon as i get my cycle ready i have had two friends concieve with clomid one friend just had her second clomid baby.And if it makes you feel better about it they both had only one baby.I no multiples are possible but i sort of feel like if its this hard for us to have one whats the chance my messed up ovaries are going crank out two or three eggs.Im so sorry for your loss and i hope you'll soon have a baby of you own feel free to email me if you just need a friend LYNNA0382@aol.com............................Melinda
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