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Re: Miscarraige, 'insufficiency', stupid people, etc- another Valerie rant (sorry, long) From: Barb (anonymous@obgyn.net) Fri, 30 Aug 2002 13:04:39 -0500 (CDT) Messages sorted by: [ date ][ thread ][ subject ][ author ] Next message: laura: "can you have pcos without detected hormonal imbalance??" Previous message: carrie: "Re: Miscarraige, 'insufficiency', stupid people, etc- another Valerie rant (sorry, long)" In reply to: Joy: "Re: Miscarraige, 'insufficiency', stupid people, etc- another Valerie rant (sorry, long)" Next in thread: Valerie: "Re: Miscarraige, 'insufficiency', stupid people, etc- another Valerie rant (sorry, long)" Reply: Valerie: "Re: Miscarraige, 'insufficiency', stupid people, etc- another Valerie rant (sorry, long)" Dear Valerie, Reading through your post with great sympathy and so sorry for your loss. I've been there-nine times.Nine miscarriages ,being told that it would happen too. It was devestating...each one was worse...the last one took the toll on me especially being in the fourth month. It ripped me apart inside and I too ,hated women with their babies and that is just a normal response. After my last miscarriage and my husbands family knowing how difficult it was for me to talk about it and my frankness about how upset I was that all in his family could get pregnant anytime they wanted..some weren't even wanted..probably accidents,,,as all have at least five+kids.Portugues family...they have kids galore and it bothered me so much. Well..two weeks after my miscarriage we were at a wedding and my sister in laww who is a real witch..comes up to me all happpy and tells me that she is pregnant and maybe that my loss was her gain.She said god took my baby and gave it to her. Can you imagine my RAGE over this.She already had four kids at the time...my thoughts were...why does she need another one. This is a normal response to any loss and it will pass eventually. I haven't the words to express my sorrow over my losses and cannot find the right words to say to you. All I do know is it is good that you have gotten this off of your chest and venting is good. Know we are all here for you. Barb > >I am so sorry, Valerie...I wish I had words to say. I am glad you can >come here in vent. There are a lot of stupid people out there. Here is >one that gets said to me all the time: "Don't worry it will happen." How >in ^*&^ do they know???? Do they have a crystal ball? I identify. >Joy > ><snipped for space> >> >-- >Joy 29 >History of Endo and Infertility >Maybe PCOS >1 child 10-25-00 >TTC # 2 one year and counting.... > -- Sincerely, Barb C. Next message: laura: "can you have pcos without detected hormonal imbalance??" Previous message: carrie: "Re: Miscarraige, 'insufficiency', stupid people, etc- another Valerie rant (sorry, long)" In reply to: Joy: "Re: Miscarraige, 'insufficiency', stupid people, etc- another Valerie rant (sorry, long)" Next in thread: Valerie: "Re: Miscarraige, 'insufficiency', stupid people, etc- another Valerie rant (sorry, long)" Reply: Valerie: "Re: Miscarraige, 'insufficiency', stupid people, etc- another Valerie rant (sorry, long)"

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