PCOS Messages for August, 2002: Re: Arguing right before Ovulation! Arggh!

Re: Arguing right before Ovulation! Arggh!

From: Sonnet (anonymous@obgyn.net)
Mon, 12 Aug 2002 16:45:49 -0500 (CDT)

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ALL the time. I think it's the stress of being under pressure to perform, at least for us. Infertility is a HUGE stressor on a marriage and knowing when I'm fertile makes sex like the LAST thing I want to do. I think all of my built up resentments towards him (fair or not) about us not having a baby yet come out full force then!!

One trick that worked for us was making several dates around "that time" and saying that they didn't HAVE to be sex dates. But we did have to snuggle together and talk and be close. Usually that was enough to get us feeling better and more in the mood. But the pressure was also off if we just wanted to take it easy.

Will cross my fingers for you this month!

At Mon, 12 Aug 2002, Joy wrote: >
>Please tell me that I am not the only one who has gotten into an
>argument with her spouse right before ovulation, therefore causing so
>many negative emotions that interferes with wanting to have sex! This
>was the first month on metformin. We were really going to go for it
>this month! But, an argument had to erupt and sex is the farthest things
>from our minds during this window of opportunity. We did work
>everything out, but I am convinced that by the time he gets home
>tonight, it will be too late! Hopefully, the sex we had 3 days ago will
>be enough! Sorry, I just need to know I am not alone!
>Joy
>
>--
>Joy 29
>History of Endo and Infertility
>Maybe PCOS
>1 child 10-25-00
>TTC # 2 one year and counting....
>

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