Re: i need to know why i have so much anger ? why i get angry and mad for no reason and why i cant just let go in a argument instead of making it worse
From: Joanna (anonymous@obgyn.net)
Fri, 26 Jul 2002 07:24:37 -0500 (CDT)
Well, just to jump on the bandwagon lol. I do have terrible mood swings
and the worst thing about it all is the person closest to me at the time
bears the brunt. I used to be pretty good at controlling my moods but
its slowly getting worse with time. I'm not on any meds at the
momentand have just started to lose some weight with just diet changes,
but this has had no effect on calming me down any.
As for the crying for no apparent reasons, I have been doing that since
I hit puberty. Hormones have a lot to answer for.
What we need on here is an anger forum where we can just sound off about
anything without fear of upsetting anyone ;)
At Thu, 25 Jul 2002, Jen wrote:
>
>Hi Alicia and everyone else-
>
>I also get angry at people, mostly my family, for the dumbest things.
>I'm 22 and just graduated from college, so I'm living at home for a few
>more weeks until I head to grad school and an apartment 3 hours from
>home. It's not that I don't love my family, but it seems that I snap at
>them and get aggravated at them very easily. At work and with my
>friends, it's not so bad. I am on Celexa for depression and anxiety, so
>I don't know WHAT to blame my mood on! It's very confusing, and I hate
>biting my family's heads off, espeicially when I don't mean to. I hate
>feeling like this--one minute I'm fine, the next I'm snapping at
>someone. I'm afraid I may alienate people!
>
>Just thought I'd add my side of the story.
>
>Take care,
>Jen Z.
>
>At Thu, 25 Jul 2002, Alicia wrote:
>>
>> I get so angry for no reason...I thought I was just a grumpus. I never
>>thought much of it until now. I have not been diagnosed with PCOS yet, but I
>>have been having most of the symptoms. I am now 21, and about 117 pounds
>>overweight, although I don't look like it. In the last 5 or 6 years I have
>>gained about 75 pounds without any activity or diet change. Sometimes I cry
>>for no apparent reason. Anybody else do this?
>>
>>>>>----- Original Message -----
>>From: "Tangelo" <anonymous@obgyn.net>
>>To: "Multiple recipients of list PCOS" <anonymous@obgyn.net>
>>Sent: Thursday, July 25, 2002 1:26 PM
>>Subject: Re: i need to know why i have so much anger ? why i get angry and
>>mad for no reason and why i cant just let go in a argument instead of making
>>it worse
>>
>>> Oh my gosh...there are at least 3 of us out there!! This is crazy..I'm
>>> going through the EXACT same thing. No one wants to be around me b/c
>>> I'm so angry and mean all of the time. I feel guilty, but it's not
>>> enough to actually change my moods... I'm so sorry you two are dealing
>>> with this too. I hope there's an answer... :( :( :( Bless us all.
>>>
>>> Tangy
>>>
>>> At Thu, 25 Jul 2002, Eve wrote:
>>> >
>>> >WOW!! I am doing the same thing to my husband and kids also. For the
>>> >past month I have went off on everyone at home for the stupidist things.
>>> >My husband told me to go see the doctor and find out what was wrong with
>>> >me. I am currently taking zoloft but that is for something else. I
>>> >would also like to know what is wrong and why I go off the way I do. I
>>> >think to myself why do you do this but I cant find any answers. I am in
>>> >the same boat with you girl! You are not alone.
>>> >
>>> >At Thu, 25 Jul 2002, louisa wrote:
>>> >>
>>> >>SOMEONE ANYONE IF (YOUR)= > IN THE SAME BOAT CAN YOU PLEASE HELP? E MAIL
>>> >>ME
>>> >>WITH SOME NICE HELPFULL HINTS THAT WORKED FOR YOU AND YOU THINK THEY
>>> >>COULD HELP ME TOO !!!!!!!!!!!
>>> >>
>>> >> WHAT AM I BI POLAR OR SOMETHING?
>>> >>hello my name is louisa, and iam 19, iam also married.
>>> >>i love my husband vary much but for along time now i have had a
>>> >>seriously
>>> >>bad anger problem!!
>>> >>its to the point where my husband is done with my treating him and alot
>>> >>of others like shit and he is gonna leave me!!!!!
>>> >>he thinks iam a liar when he asks me like 1)why are you mean so much?
>>> >>2)why cant you controll this problem
>>> >>well damn it iam not!i dont know why am like this i dont wanna be mean
>>> >>to my husband,family and friends!
>>> >>i would love to be able to just be happy, loving and anger
>>> >>free!!!!!!!!!!!
>>> >>but iam not! instead iam grouchy,bitchy,lazy sad because of all of it!!
>>> >
>>> >--
>>> >Peace and Love ~Eve~
>>> >unicornluv76@yahoo.com
>>> >http://groups.msn.com/PCOSGetTogether/homepage
>>> >
>>>
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Emails always welcome, Stay positive :)
Joanna
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