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Re: Vent note
From: Tangelo (anonymous@obgyn.net)
Tue, 25 Jun 2002 14:42:08 -0500 (CDT)
I agree anonymous. Your whole life and outlook on life has to do with
your attitude. Sonnet, I understand that sometimes it's hard to feel
good about yourself because of what others say or how your day has gone,
but you have to realize that being self-confident and positive (even
through the toughest times) can make people see you in a different light
as well as make you feel a ton better. I'm sorry you've had a bad time.
I hope things look up for you soon and that you understand that many, if
not most of the women here can empathize with what you're going through
and how you feel. :) *HUG* Take care of yourself (esp. your attitude
and emotions) and know that we understand and we're here to listen! :)
Tangy
At Tue, 25 Jun 2002, anonymous wrote:
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>There must be something about your present situation that is working for
>you; otherwise, you would not be doing it. Perhaps change your beliefs
>and attitudes. Instead of being infertile, pimpley, etc. say to
>yourself that you are dailing making the changes to be fetile and pimple
>free and then actually do those changes. What if you did not have to be
>overweight? I think the first step is changeing your mind. That is
>indeed if you really want to change. If you made the changes in your
>life to overcome your PCOS and be happy, what would that life look like?
>What about your present life circumstances work for you? I think you
>have a lot of strength Sonnet, you're great!
>
>At Mon, 24 Jun 2002, Sonnet wrote:
>>
>>Okay, so given that I'm already stressed and teary and have gained 15lbs
>>in the past 2 weeks!!!
>>
>>I work two jobs right now, as my husband is out of work. Last night I
>>was at work, and a customer came in, and ranted a little about the
>>Southwest thing (because now he's hoping more of them fat people won't
>>fly on planes.) Then he looked at me, and launched into a whole list of
>>diet tips!! Ummmm thanks very much, it's appreciated. REALLY.
>>
>>So I was already upset. Then this morning at work, my coworker - whom,
>>may I add, is 19, and sharing a 1 bedroom flat with 5 other people
>>including her boyfriend - announced that she was pregnant. Then she
>>insisted that I FEEL HER TUMMY to prove that it was her month-old
>>pregnancy and not "tummy fat." I sat and listened to them all share
>>pregnancy stories and ideas and everything for a long time. Then I just
>>left early and came home.
>>
>>I'm sorry for the vent, it's just that I am feeling like such a failure
>>of a person today. Fat, bald, pimply, and infertile, yay. Could it get
>>much worse???
>>
>>--
>>email always welcome: sonnet_fitz@hotmail.com
>>
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