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Re: Divorcing due to PCOS (to the original author)From: Valerie (anonymous@obgyn.net)Mon, 20 May 2002 17:59:52 -0500 (CDT)
I am sorry this is so so long... but when my husband and I read your post it struck so so deep that YOU seemed to take fault in yourself... please DON'T TAKE THE BLAME... I am so sorry to hear of the pain being inflicted upon you. My husband felt that he could not post on a womens forum, but I think he had a whole lot of insight, we discussed your post at length because yours is a situation that tugs heartstrings and sits semi-dormant but scary in the back of the mind of many Cysters. First things first- anyone who would cut off your skin tags is a sick and sadistic bastard because that violates your person, he only further supports the sick and sadistic bastard theory by telling you he feels like he is making love to a man... he does not love you because he is too selfish and immature to love you... thus he is unworthy of you. (I also get the distinct feeling there is more to your marraige than you have said... I have never heard of someone going straight for the nail clippers... I am guessing there is an extensive history of physical and or emotional abuse which means he is a bonafide criminal and if you are in California, let me just say that we have STRICT laws about that...I am sure other places do too) Next, lets talk about his little concubine- don't you worry, she'll soon see him for what he is really like... LADIES- Is there any controversy in the statement that if you meet a man because he is cheating on someone, THEN he will later meet another woman because he is cheating on YOU... she'll learn! Furthermore... my husband put the concept best- (to borrow from some of those school sex ed videos and speeches) it doesn't take a man to screw someone, it takes a man to have respect and adhereance to his responsibilities. Your soon to be ex-husband married you "for better or worse, in sickness and in health" and IF he was a "real man" he would have taken note to your facial hair and realized that it must devastate you even more than it might bug him, and he'd pop for laser hair removal or research options with you because real men who care for their wives do these things. My husband (and I have to agree) says that your husband is lowly because he cannot even take responsibility like a man... he is hiding behind your PCOS because he knows you are sensitive about it... he hides his mistress behind your PCOS rather than own up to the fact that real men carry their penises around while like a dumb horny and out of control pubescent boy he was carried BY HIS PENIS (unacceptable, and there are no sufficient excuses)... real men own up to their mistakes... and AND AND REAL MEN don't make mistakes like mistresses. If children were any part of the puzzle, he would have been researching infertility treatments, surrogacy, adoption, WHATEVER! Do not let him bring you down- he only wants to bring you down because somewhere deep down he realizes how lowly he is and he wants to make you fell lower... FURTHERMORE- get him for every nickel and dime he is worth because he is the bad one here... the nipping of your skin tags constitutes physical and emotional abuse... the mistress is adultry... TRANSLATION- he may have walked out making every effort to make you feel bad, while he actually IS BAD and the courts won't be blind to it... you have him by the ________ when it comes to divorce court and my advice is to hold on and not let go until the courts have given you your just settlement for the way he mistreated you and broke you down out of his own selfishness... then when its all over you will be happily ever after and have "TAKEN OUT THE TRASH!" Honey... I have to close now... suffice it to say that I send you love, hugs, prayers, and my certainty that time will come to show you that this was for the best... email me anytime.
-- ValerieC At Wed, 15 May 2002, anonymous wrote: >> >>Hello friends, >> >>I am sad to say that my husband has filed for divorce. He says it is >>due to my symptoms which have made me unattractive to him. He says he >>feels like he is making love to a man when he is on me (because of my >>face and chest hair0 and that my weight and the stench from it are >>unbearable to him. He once cut my skin tags off with nail clippers >>while I was asleep, and I woke up bleeding in several places. He also >>wants to have a family, which I cannot provide for him, so he has been >>seeing another woman on the side. I just found out about her. I wish >>men were more understanding. > >--
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