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Re: baby boom! update for Bonnie
From: Dona (anonymous@obgyn.net)
Mon, 28 Jan 2002 09:06:55 -0600 (CST)
HI Bonnie,
your right he is a Jerk...lol.But he is family and I love him
regardless. It just would make it soo much easier if I knew he would be
there for his wife and kids.I told Chad to say Hi for me..=)...Have a
good week..and I'll try to catch you later,Dona
>At Sun, 27 Jan 2002, Koolaide wrote:
>Oh Dona....that is terrible news ! My jaw is on the floor...he was being
>mean enough to make her cry !! What a jerk. I'm sorry to say that of
>your nephew...but it's true. 4 babies at once ! Unbelieveable.
>Maybe...maybe they will come to their senses further on in the pregnancy
>and give them up for adoption. I hate to agree with you that it
>wouldn't be the best thing for you to adopt..but you are right, it will
>bite your ass one day. It's just so sad. Funny that this happened
>today, Chad's cousin had her baby day before yesterday. She's 17 for
>god's sake. It is just tooooo much to handle somedays.
>Chad said he saw you on yahoo...sorry I missed ya. I'll be on for a
>bit, if you pop back on.
> Keep your chin up Dona, it will happen for us.
>
>At Sun, 27 Jan 2002, Dona wrote:
>>
>>Hi Bonnie,
>>Well guess what..I just found out today that my nephews wife is NOT
>>having tripplets..she is having QUADS!I just cant believe that she was
>>not using fertility meds..I think she is lying..lol.She concieved her
>>last child with gonal-f. Maybe she used what she had left over..who
>>knows?My nephew has been really mean to her..she called crying =( I
>>think he is in shock and she is extremely emotoinal from being pregnant
>>with 4 babies.I my nephew had called my mom asking if she would let them
>>move in with her when the babies come..my mom is 74 years old and can't
>>handle raising 5 babies and thats what would happen too!They won't
>>consider giving any of the babies up for adoption or elective reduction
>>and I can't blame them.I wish I could have one of there's to raise,but
>>it just come back to bite me in the a'' if I did because my nephew is so
>>unpredictable and irresponsible.
>>I'm having an extremely difficult time trying to be happy for them.
>>And my nephew loves rubbing my nose in the fact that I havent been able
>>to have a viable pregnancy.
>>well I just needed to get this off my chest..I know some of you are
>>wondering what this has to do with this forum...well many of us stuggle
>>with issues of others being pregnant around us and not being able to get
>>pregnant...it gets so fustrating!
>>Dona
>>
>>>At Fri, 4 Jan 2002, Koolaide wrote:
>>>Wow !! Dona that's good news I think. It always seems the ones who
>>>are...ah...um...irrespnsible have the babies. Chad's cousin is 17 and
>>>due any day. Just makes me upset that's all. How are you doing
>>>anyway?? I saw you on yahoo last week but you were gone in a flash. Hope
>>>things are going ok. Be strong, we'll have our chance at motherhood,
>>>it's just not our time yet.
>>> Bonnie
>>>ps..maybe they should split up these triplets, one for you, one for me
>>>and one for Sonnet....hmmm..just a thought !
>>>
>>>At Fri, 4 Jan 2002, Dona wrote:
>>>>
>>>>Just found out that my nephew and his wife are pregnant with triplets
>>>>(sigh)they just had a baby 5 months ago.She was not on any meds at
>>>>all....some people just have all the luck.She has PCOS and used clomid
>>>>for her first baby.
>>>>and of course my nephew is a very irresponsible and childish..I sure
>>>>hope he grows up real quick to raise his children in a moral and
>>>>upstanding way (heavy sigh).But I am no one to judge his behavior I
>>>>guess. =(
>>>>I just pray his wife is strong enough to have these babies.
>>>>Dona
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